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how do you get over a guy?
ok how do you get over a guy?
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hey,
Getting over a guy is something really hard to do, but yet, not impossible. It does take alot of time though to get over him and the fact that you loved him and were crazy about him. But it works at the very end.
All you have to do is to try and occupy your time and thoughts with something rather than him, like hang out with friends, or talk on the phone or sit online or go out with your family or study or take up a sport or get a part time job. These are all things, that if you put all your effort and concentration in , then you won't find time to think of this guy. And yes its true, that maybe every once in a while ,your mind will float away and think of him. But then again, you will get used to it at the end, and will stop thinking of him.
Another thing and most important, is that you can try and give all that love you gave to him ,give it to someone else. I am sure that there are other guys in your life, or guy freinds or best freinds. So try and take all that love you gave him to someone else from a freind or a crush or something.
Goodluck:) and if you need to talk or if you need any other advice or help ,then please be free to contact me.
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hang out with friends alot, get a new hobby or do what you used to do or still do. go to a movie, hang with family, join sports, get into reading books it should keep your mind off him. go running, and listin to music at the same time or a diffrent times. go shopping, buy something that you really like. there are alot of things to get over a guy. just remember guys are not your intire world. do what you did before you started going with the guy, you will get over him soon enough.
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Getting over a guy is hard no matter what, but you have to realized it was for the best.A broken heart takes time to amend especially if you have been going out for awhile.First you might want to call some friends over for a sleep over the first week is the hardest.Have a girls night watch a lot of movies, eat a lot of junk food, maybe have a good cry to let it out of your system.Then slowly, but surely you need to get your self out of the house more and more.Get preoccupied with school, friends, work, ect.try not to think of him to much!You have to remember that he was not the guy for you and that your "prince charming" is out there somewhere. Now when enough time has past you might want to consider going out on a date. Don't worry about the date just relax and have fun! I hope this helps you out with your problem! Good Luck!
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Just find someone new and go out with friends and do stuff just to get your mind off him. If anything in your room or anything reminds you of him take it down.Also don't call him if he calls ignore calls. After a while if you do that you'll be over him. Good luck ♥
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Girl, I know its realy hard to get over your ex! Especialy if you have been together for years. And I know you are telling your self that you wont ever find a guy like him. But he is your Ex for a reason. So just remember those reasons and move on. Trust me on this one, you will move on with someone that will love you and repsect you way more. Because you now know what you really want in a man. He was just practice. I'm sure you will be even more happy. Later on you will soon look back and tell your self "why was I even trippin off of him?" Keep your head up.
Take care of your self.
Manicure, pedicure, facial..
get dressed
go out. (especially to where he would be at) with your girls only and have a good time. (keep in mind, he is looking at you and thinking, ahh I wish i was still with her) he will do things to get to you, (like dance with a girl you do not like) but act like you do not care.
at the same time: do not act stupid. do not try to make him jealous by dancing with idiot guys or laughing out loud. BE a LADY.
leave before the party ends.(let his friends/people he is close to that you are heading to a private party). He will hear it from them.
the purpose for this: he will feel like u are over him and he will start to get sad. That should make you feel better. personally I enjoy a guy when he is sad over me (after we break up) that way it is easier for me to move on. however, if i see him moving on, while I am mopping, down the hill I go.
so the moral of this long posting is: go out. have fun (don't do anything stupid) and meet other guys.
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hey you just have to stop thinking about him and block yourself out from hanging around him for a while. i just recently helped by best friend get over a guy that lead her on quite a bit, and she was heartbroken when she found it out, and yet she still had strong feelings for him. the only time she talked to him, though, since it's summer, was online, and in order to get over him she had to stop talking to him on the computer for like 2 months, and she became interested in another guy. then, when she lost interest in the new guy, she remembered how much she liked her previous crush. don't let this happen to you! try and find a way to block out communicating with the guy and eventually you will forget what you saw in him and stop liking him. it's really hard to do so i wish you best of luck!! ;] if you need anything else just drop one in my inbox! hope i could help & good luck.
love always
xoxo amanda
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I would want to say that a good way to get over a guy is to, take your mind off of things do other stuff "{PUT YOUR MIND ON OTHER {GUYS}.
gIRLS AdViCE
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