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okay me and my boyfriend matt have been going out for almost three months.. i really think just making out is getting boring for him but since hes sucha gentleman hes not gonna say anything, if i want to give him a handjob, what should i do? just put my hand down his pants? it seems like there should be more to it? i dont know its my first one! and when he fingers me.. does he like go inside my pants or is it like.. over my jeans? im really confused on all of the second base junk. HELP? please! (link)
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DUDE EWWWW
HOW OLD ARE YOU HOMESTLY
and how am i supposed to know im 13
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*15 female*
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and like 2 weeks. I care for him a lot, but i'm such a jealous girlfriend and I can't help it.I mean I get jealous even when he says jlo is hot or someone else famous. I don't like when he hangs out with other girl unless i'm there to. I feel this is wrong of me. I trust him with all my heart but sometimes i just can't help it to be jealous. any advice?
Thanks in advance
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you dont trust him
you need to give him some space hes a guy hes going to talk to other girls and say famous women are hot
but understand this hes going to catch on sooner or later about you be jealous and BREAK UP WITH YOU!!! so dont ruin it hes not going to cheat on you.
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13/m, insanely long story short, we were friends, over the summer I realized I liked her, I told her because it was driving me insane, she wasn't sure in what way she liked me. In other words, she felt sorry for me and didn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me she didn't like me as more than a friend but didn't want to lie by saying she did like me. Don't give me any of that "teenagers don't know love" crap. Even if we don't, infatuation is a vital phase in our lives, eh? So anyway, after a while, I started dreaming about her---I even dreamt that I asked her out successfully one time!---and everything started reminding me of her... the usual stuff. I tried asking her out in person. Didn't work. So I was over her for about 3 days. Then everything reminded me of her---even more!!! When school started, we found things too awkward to talk to each other. It was just... weird. Things have started getting better though. But it was weird for about a month or two. The only way we talked was over AIM.
Then last week I started playing guitar, using my dad's old electric one and one of his acoustics, depending on which one my sister (she was also trying to learn) was using. So I was IMing her (she plays acoustic) and then I said that I was trying to learn guitar, and that my next attempt to play a piece was Another One Bites The Dust. Her response? "thats totally hott!!!" So that was pretty cool. Then the next day I walked into school and she stopped me right in front of the science room. She had dreamt about me. Apparently, I started rocking on the electric guitar, and then she joined in on acoustic, and it was cool, and then we went to the moon. She's a spaz.
But anyway, does she finally like me? Everyone said she liked me last year. My friends, my family, they were all saying it. But we were both in denial. Like one time my best friend came up to us and said, "You know, *her name*, you look like *my name*'s boyfriend!" We both dismissed that thought and walked away. But she was like flirting with me all year. And as the class loser/nerd, I'm blind to anyone dropping hints or flirting with me.
Yesterday I IMed one of her best friends and asked if she had liked me last year. ("She" being the person I liked, not her best friend.) She logged out. Does that mean something? Or did she honestly not know?
Last night I dreamt that the friend IMed me back and sent me the URL of a blog about me. It was all about how much she liked me last year. It was really sweet! And then in science class that day someone put the Spamalot soundtrack into a CD player and the only 2 people who knew the words were her and me. So we did a duet of The Song That Goes Like This. It was cool.
So obviously she's taken over my life, if I honestly call this a "long story short" which it honestly is, surprisingly. I can't stop thinking about her. Everything reminds me of her. Roller coasters? We went to a carnival together. Egypt? She hugged me on the day I made a presentation on Egypt. The game Batik? It sounds like a Greek-ish name, she's from Greece. Obviously I'm obsessed. Is there any way to stop that apart from finding someone else? Because right now I've kinda got my mind set on her...
A few more questions. Does she like me? How can I find out? I think I had a few more but I forget what they are...
A few things not to say:
-There are other fish in the sea. I'm not really looking for others, first I have to either get her to like me or to get over her. Take life one step at a time.
-You could probably pick up any girl! Not really, most girls hate me, whether it's because I'm really nerdy, I'm a loser, I talk too much, or I don't really care about my looks and thus aren't hot.
-You've got the rest of your life to live! Well, yes, but first, I have to reach the rest of my life outside an insane asylum!
Yeah... I'm sorry, when I get started on her I just keep going and going and going... sorry... I should probably shut up now. Oh, and any responses violating the ToS will be reported without hesitation. That includes unhelpful advice. Thank you so much, you don't know how much this means to me!!!
P.S. For what it's worth, she's hugged me three times... every time I've rejected it for some unknown reason... like if you've ever read Flowers for Algernon, you know how whenever he got too close to Alice Kinnian he got scared and couldn't go through with it for some unknown reason? Yeah, it's like that. I'm still partially child and I guess half my mind is ready for this and half my mind is still saying that "girl are icky" or something like that.... (link)
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look you really have feelings for her you will NEVER get her off your mind unless you move away or somthing.She likes you but...Dont ask her out again until she is ready like hugging everytime she sees you,passing notes,giving you stuff,or just wanting to go and do everything with you.You dont want to ruin this friendship,because it seems like she is starting to like you more than a friend,and if you rush that your friendship with her will be back to 0,no friendship,no nothing,nada.
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ok, well every now and then i get these really really bad headaches, my eyes get very sensitive to light and even the slightest noise makes my head pound. Now iknow the cause of these headaches isnt from my vision, because ive had my eyes checked many times and i do wear glasses. What can be causing them? thanks 4 ur answers (link)
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i am not a doctor
but the same thing happened to my mom,your glasses are too strong,the lenses(sp?) are to thick for you
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ok so i have liked this guy at school for like ever and earlier this week he asked me out and i said yes of course! Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out. He is really starting to confuse me what should I do? (link)
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He is not ready for a relationship and if he is he is going to be shy about it and not come around you because he knows he will have to face his girlfriend.So dont think he doesnt like you.What you do is go up to him and ask him if hes ok about your relationship.i hope i help
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