ok so i have liked this guy at school for like ever and earlier this week he asked me out and i said yes of course! Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out. He is really starting to confuse me what should I do?
Heavens_Angel answered Friday November 11 2005, 8:07 pm: He is not ready for a relationship and if he is he is going to be shy about it and not come around you because he knows he will have to face his girlfriend.So dont think he doesnt like you.What you do is go up to him and ask him if hes ok about your relationship.i hope i help [ Heavens_Angel's advice column | Ask Heavens_Angel A Question ]
happy-helper answered Friday November 11 2005, 1:59 pm: Hmm, I'm not judging him but is he the type of lad who would say he's going out with someone to impress his peers? If not, then why not talk to him? Surely a main part of a relationship is communication. Communicate, girl! Ask him why he didn't say hey to you in the hall or talk to him at break.
Best of luck!
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Friday November 11 2005, 12:02 pm: "Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out."
Tell everyone that you WERE going out, or that you WEREN'T going out?
If you meant WEREN'T, then that should be your first and last hint that this relationship is not going to work out. It's been a couple of hours, and he's already ashamed. That's.. not.. a.. good.. sign. =/ I would definitely suggest confronting him, though. Just tell him that you want to know what the heck is going on, and if he is serious about upkeeping a relationship with you. If you notice he's even the tiniest bit unsure of himself, then just walk. Teenage years are difficult enough, and to be honest... heartbreak during them in inevitably. But, that doesn't mean you might as well set yourself up for them.. If this guy isn't true with his feelings, then go find something better for yourself. :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Teza answered Friday November 11 2005, 11:56 am: So he told evryone you were going out? If he did then that's good. He is glad to be with you. Guys are unpredictable, so you never know why they are doing the things they do. I mean it's only been a little while since he asked you out, so give it some time. You guys have to get comftrable with each other first. If it's really starting to bother you, ask him what's going on. I don't think it's anything serious though, so just talk to him. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
hco_babe answered Friday November 11 2005, 11:54 am: just ask him what is going on with him and why he's acting this way. he's the only person that would really know for sure..if he keeps it up break it off. he's not worth your time. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
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