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second base help!
okay me and my boyfriend matt have been going out for almost three months.. i really think just making out is getting boring for him but since hes sucha gentleman hes not gonna say anything, if i want to give him a handjob, what should i do? just put my hand down his pants? it seems like there should be more to it? i dont know its my first one! and when he fingers me.. does he like go inside my pants or is it like.. over my jeans? im really confused on all of the second base junk. HELP? please!
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Him to you: Why not hold his hand and guide it down there and apply pressure which you're happy with. Also, you could hint by unzipping your jeans and then doing it.
You to him: When making out, guide your hand down his chest and unzip his pants. TALK to him though, that's really important and ask him what you can do to make the experience more pleasureable for him.
Remember, don't do things just because he may be getting bored of just making out, make sure you're comfortable 100% of the time!
x Steph x
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dont do something just because you think its boring for him..do it because your ready and wanting to. if your not ready..do not go any further..he would understand.
--so your making out..things are getting good..start to unbutton his pants..he can help if your having troubles lol..and its simple..with your "good" hand move it up and down the penis. you cant really screw it up..the only way you can screw things up is if you like bend it or yank it or somethin (ow that would hurt). Change speeds..fast and slow..maybe he has something he likes *ask!* communication is the key to pleasure
he can finger you by just going over the jeans..its not really hardcore fingering though. its just like rubbing yuo there with your jeans on..which can be interesting..but fingering is when he actually has his finger in there. he will do it by either sliding his hand down your pants without takign them off..he might take them off..well whatever you feel comfortable with
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Hey There!
All you need to do is ask him if he is ok with it. If not tell him you can wait. Because if you wait that shows that you really do love him and your not just using him! Just ask em! :)
Green Day
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All you have to do is open his zipper (if he wears boxers with the little hole in the middle) then pull his penis out and start massaging it gently. (PUT ONE HAND ON THE BASE OF HIS PENIS AND MASSAGE HIM THERE THEN TAKE THE OTHER HAND AND SLOWLY MOVE IT UP AND DOWN! {PAYING ATTENTION TO THE TIP OF HIS PENIS} AND MAYBE...... UMM.. Tickle his balls too lol be gently. Very sensitive area) YOU will have to pull down your pants and open your legs so he can find your hole to finger you.
P.S. If you wear no panties for him then all he has to do is open your zipper and finger you WITHOUT you having to take off your pants :) or open your zipper and move the panties to the side.
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ok its kind of hard to answer when the age is unknown but since everone on here asks advice iwill give it--even if we dont tell you one day you will know--ok if you want to do something to him...when you are kissing just start rubbing you hand up and down his leg and eventually go towards his package and he will know what your doing--then when he is ready he will do the same and at first it it outside the pants then you have to unbutton his jeans and go inside same as him he will also go inside yours,and yes when you get fingered it is inside-goodluck nd remember be safe and if it goes further wear protection--there are many diseases outt here and you dont want to get any.
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DUDE EWWWW
HOW OLD ARE YOU HOMESTLY
and how am i supposed to know im 13
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