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jealous girlfriend
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and like 2 weeks. I care for him a lot, but i'm such a jealous girlfriend and I can't help it.I mean I get jealous even when he says jlo is hot or someone else famous. I don't like when he hangs out with other girl unless i'm there to. I feel this is wrong of me. I trust him with all my heart but sometimes i just can't help it to be jealous. any advice?
Thanks in advance
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Just tell him straight up you get a little worried sometimes. Then get things straight with him! Trust me that will make the relationship stronger and more able to trust eachother!
x3 Jordan
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Its perfectly normal to be a jealous girlfriend. What girlfriend isn't? =] I mean I can see why you might get jealous whenever he hangs around his friends that are girls, but you shouldn't let the celebrities bother you at all. I mean it's not like the celebrities gonna walk on by and steal your boyfriend away from you or anything. And besides, don't you think any male celebrities are hot? =] I know you do. =D With the friend thing though, just try and become friends with them more and get to know them better and they'll invite you to hang out with them so you can always just be there and keep your out eye on everything, and plus he'll be happier knowing you want to be friends with his friends =] I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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you dont trust him
you need to give him some space hes a guy hes going to talk to other girls and say famous women are hot
but understand this hes going to catch on sooner or later about you be jealous and BREAK UP WITH YOU!!! so dont ruin it hes not going to cheat on you.
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yeah..been there done that..i was a jealous gurlfriend also..and i still `tend to do this..i just learned that jealously is not pretty..and all guys are going to do it..its natural..us girls just keep it in our had most of the tme when we see a hot guy or somethingso maybe next time when you see a hot guy or sumn say something like (blank..is so hot..) and see how he reacts..otherwise you just needa accept the fact the "trust" is the most important thing in a relationship and you should be able to trust your bf that just because he thinks jlo is hot doesnt mean hes going to go cheat on you..hes just complimenting a womans beauty..or (booty) haha..but no matter what..if u`v been together for over a year..obviousy ur doing something right..your his number one
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I've been with my boyfriend for a long time. But yet I get the same way too. Its like your confused...your like wait your with me but your talking about another girl who is hott infront of me...lol (even if it is just someone famous) and then he always goes and partys at his dads house and i know there are tons of girls there and it bothers the hell out of me but i just relax and as hard as it is for me I just go do something to try to take my mind off of it like go out with some friends or just go to sleep or call him and ask him whats up and tell him how much you miss him and hope he's having fun. The first step to a healthy relationship is TRUST and you can say you trust him but you cant after two weeks so you have a reason to be jelous...try this ...get to know his friends real well and they will start inviting your over to hangout too and then you'll never have to worry about him being around other girls without you!
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Naxt time you start to feel jealous when he talks abouta celebs just remember they don't know who is and he is your boyfriend so theres no need to be jealous and if a girl tries to chat him up and steal him away just go over and give him the biggest french kiss of his life right in front of her .!!That will show them
Hope I helped
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& kisses
Anita
P.s. the perfect day to do this would be on national make-out day nekt friday the 18th !!
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I can relate.... I don't blame you for not wanting your boyfriend to hang around with other girls. If a guy in a serious relationship is hanging out with a bunch of girls all the time... there's something wrong with that picture. I don't think it's wrong at all for you to feel that way. If the girls are really his friends and nothing more, they'll understand they way you feel even if they don't like it. Honestly, I think you should just try to let it roll off if he says something about a celebrity being "hot". I'm sure there are celebrites that you think are good looking and he probably feels the same way. Maybe you could ask him to not say things like that around you. Since you guys hae been together for awhile, he should be able to comply with that.
Hope I helped. :)
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Main two things in ANY relationship - Love and TRUST. You must trust him with your life and know that he won't cheat on you. I blame it mainly on soaps with the amount of affairs the characters have. It's not like that in real life. I guess there is no over-night cure, but you just have to let him have his own space, if you don't, he might not like you 'invading' his space. I'm sure you're a fantastic girlfriend, just give him a little breathing space and let him talk to whoever he wants. You must like celebrities too or think one/some of them are good looking. He chooses to tell you not to get you jealous but because he trusts you! :)G
Good luck!!
x Steph x
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I found some websites that offer tips on overcoming jealousy. I think it just might do you some good to take a look at them. It couldn't hurt, right? :)
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