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oky, i am 5'5" i have dark brown hair and hazel eyes. i luv to sing and i do hip-hop dance. im pretty good w/ advice i figured i would test my skillz and turns out im pretty derne good. lol* bye ya'll

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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!!

well tell him to chill out and give you some time to get comfortanble w/ the sitiation. i mean thats all you really can do if you really like him.

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how do you approach a friend who used to be your best friend but now you barely talk ? i have a friend nd we used to be best friends but out of nowhere its like i dont even exist anymore ..

approach her and say watz been goin on? we havent talked in forever! see what she says if she doesnt care wat you have to say she isnt worth it.

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Ok well I like this guy, he's awesome, and I've liked him for like.. a year... and I don't know if I should tell him because sometimes he freaks if someone says they like him... which I no, is stupid. What should I do?

truthfully,... even if he flips i still think you shoudl tell him or srop hints. i mean there is no reason in holdin back i dont think. go for it, maybe he likes you too.

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Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop

the only way to stop cussin is to force yourself from it. or try to use words that sound like ir but arent it. try that out and see if it works. hope i helped a little

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I like this guy but the thing is, he doesn't like me. and whenever he gets jealous he likes me. and when i dropped this guy that he was jeaslous of he didn't like me anymore. so...the same situation is with this guy that likes me. should i go out with the guy who likes me to get him jealous??

thanks in advance!!!

no if you have to get a guy jealous for him to lyk you them he aint worth your precious time. and you only have so much of it. dont waste it on tryin to get one guy. date the guy that likes you if you like him. if you dont then drop him and go on with your life.

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i have a black silky skirt for graduation and i got a size that is too big for me. i dont have a dryer so i cant shrink it that way.. what are some ways to shrink my skirt because i dont have a dryer.. i tried to put the skirt in hot water for a few minutes and then blow dry the skirt with hot air.. this doesnt work so what are some ways to shrink it?

my friend told me to put it in cold water and then blow dry it. that might work my friend told me that 1 time. but i aint shure if it works

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There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do??

okay if he is more worried about wat ppl think then he isnt worth your precious time. he shouldnt b ashamed to b friendz w/ you then he aint really a friend

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I know this girl who is popular but nice at the same time. Everyone likes her. So i decided to talk to her and everything went fine. We became friends, until this month when i became suspicious. She never laughs like usual w/ me and she only laughed w/ other people. When I speak to her all she says is mumbles. I've never been mean to her. I've never spread a rumor about her. But today when I supposedly did something wrong (not really) she immediatly began hating me and gave me the silent treatment. I am soo confused. Any advice?

if somebody is going to treat you like that for no reason they are wastin your time. let it go you have other friends but if you really want to b friends w/ her again give her a taste of her own medicine and see wat happens. i hope helped. bye now

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me and this guy like eachother and we meet at a camp this summer. but we live 2 far away. I am going 2 see him soon. and some people think that hes going 2 ask me out. but i dont know if i would want 2 because of the distance. like i would but the distance is a big thing.

what should i do?

Thanks

if you really lyk someone the distance between ya'll shouldnt matter. my b/f and i have been together for 4 months and 2 and a hlaf weeks and i liv 218 miles away from him. yes, it does get hard but i really think you should give him a try. just to see how it goes. hope i could help bye now

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last year i lost a rgoup of friends. i met other ppl and i loved my new friends. now they left me and i have no idea why. they tell me that i was bitchy and that i hurt them and that i needed to change and be nice and love them. i do love them and i know i was a bithc and i know i need to change but i cant do it without them helping me. i am hurt and i cant stop crying. i love them all so much but they left. i dont know what to do.

dont let them walk away from you just tell them u want to talk for a few minutes and see if they will understand. i am in the same situation right now and i myself cant seem to figure it out. you can alwayz get new friendz but they r never going to b like your old ones.

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Does anyone know of any movies that have dancing in them?
I need hip hop or straight up street dancing movies.
Apart from Honey and You Got Served.

a good movie for dancing is new and it is called "Rize" try it out

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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.

is this dumb of me?

no itz not dumb @ all u have a complete right to b suspicious but if he really does like u he wont b stupid and do anything!

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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.

But.

I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.

I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?

Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like

"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"

or outright flames will get a 1.

yes sex is wrong if you are not married. i dont know how to explain it but yes it is wrong!

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Im not anti-christian, infact im christian myself but, why do christians think that witchcraft is wrong? Its another religion just like Buhdism and christianity itself.

because it says in the Bible that GOd hates witchcraft. i really dont think you should need any other reason. + witchcraft has to do w/ the devil and believe u do not want the devil to interfere with your lifestyle!

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There is a guy I like and he likes me and everyone knows it. However, I am not asking him out so don't even suggest it. Anyways, his birthday is Monday and we aren't going out yet, and I don't know what to get him. I was thinking maybe a cute teddy bear and some candy, but it was just Halloween so there is plenty of candy to go around. Please help, I want to get a winning prensent!!!

what r u, charlie and the cocolate factory. u dont need to get him anything. if you r get him a card and maybe some money. if you're not goin dont get to fancy! (i dont mean to sound rude)

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pliz advice me i have a crush on this guy called Jake his in 12 grade and i'm in 10 grade i really luv him what should i do if i want to talk to him?

get to know him better. if he has no clue who you are make yourself noticable. be outgoing wild and energetic no one can keep their eyes off u then!

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ok well i have a pretty big crush on a girl at school. But there is a huge problem. Two other girls like me and i dont really like them and i dont want to say no to them cause they would freak out on me... I used to like one of the girls but now i dont and she still thinks i do. what should i do. i really dont wanna go out with them i want to go out with the girl a like. How should i begin to talk with her.

just b sweet and get to know her. she'll get to like you over time. show her your sensitive side. i am a gurl i know!

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Are boxers a good dog to have as a family pet? I want one, but I have 2 little ones at home (2years & 6 Mo.) would a boxer be a wise decision?

yes i have a boxer of my own i luv her to bits and pieces. she is an awesome dogg i have had her for 8 years now. alright better go bye now

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alright i need help..so i went to this halloween party and the guy i like was there and i hung out with him the whole time and over that times he kept kinda flirting like we were all cold and he was like lets hold hands and stuff and i was like my butts cold and he goes ill warm it up and he knows i get pissed when he talks about other girls cause he knows i like him and he kept doin that and being like just kiddding..i just cant tell if he likes me or not...

ill see him tomorrow so what should i do!!!

rate high for good answers! =)

well yea guys are complicated.. i think he lyx you but he is still wrapped up in other girls. he isnt worth your breath if he is gunna b talkin about other girls to you. dont waste your time on what you THINK is good!

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I'm horribly apprehensive about my up soming Bat Mitzvah!! I have prepared a very long speech about what i learned in hebrew school. Thats not what im nervous about though. I'm nervous about the hebrew reading (which is actually written in transliteration). I get nervous and start shaking. Sometimes I get so nervous that I talk really fast and slur my words. I don't want to mess up a day that is all about me!! How can I gain some CONFIDENCE in myself!! I'm so gunna screw up!!

tell yourself that you know you can do it. if you know in your heart that you can.. u can accomplish anything!

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