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Problems with spirituality
Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop
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ok i struggled witht his for a long time and sometimes i stilll do this is what i say
s-aww snap or my fav. kruddy muffins
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I have the same problem, its called habit, whats helping me is I have one of my friends hit me, a friend who is always with me, when I swear, but most people really dont lkike the sound of that. Start a swear jar evrytime you swear, and be honest, put a dollar or so in the jar.
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everytime you are about to say a cuss word, just stop yourself,and put another word in its place. take it day by day, and ask God for the strength to help you.Good luck!
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Put a jar in your room. And every time you cuz you have to put 1$ in it. And you cannont take it out until your like 19 or something. best way is to get a piggy bank, so you cant just reach your hand in a take money out. may sound stupid but it might actually work. IUnform all your frineds about it so when they heard you cus they will make u put money in it.
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If you would like to stop cussing, try using a rubberband on your wrist. if you get the ruge to cuss or you do pull the rubber band. This has helped my friend.
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well what i doo is change the bad word too somthin thats not bad lol !! well like ...
oh shyt - oh snap
fuck - fudge
and you can make up anithin really !!
hope i helped
♥ Samra
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This is SOOOOOOOOOOOH me! I CUSS ALL THE TIME! AND I FEEL GUILTY AFTER DOING IT!!!!! Sometimes I subsitute the word so it doesn't seem like a curse FOR EXAMPLE:
Fugg- fu**
Fuggin- fu**ing
Shittles- sh**
What the fugg- what the fu**
niggling or negro- ni66a
anus- a55hole
biatch- bit**
SEE ITS REAL EASY!!!!!! AND IF THIS DOESN'T WORK FOR YOU THEN WHEN YOU GET HOME FROM SCHOOL, ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS! It makes me feel better if I do that.
P.S. I'm black so please don't complain about OHH SHE'S BEING RACIST LOL.
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swearing is really unattractive. it's ok to do it every now and then, but all the time it's not. when you get angry or really really mad, just step back for a second and think before you say something. swearing is a REALLY hard habit to break once your really into it. start changing some of your words around. for example...
damn/damnit-dang, shoot, crap
shit-" "+shiettt, shiz
bitch-jerk, biatch, b, anything else you call someone
fuck up-screw up, screw over, ruin, etc
..you get the idea.
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ok, well pray to God to help you follow his 10 commandments and pray that he can help you get through each day w/out cussing. God works in mysterious ways and it may take a while... but hes there and he will help you... DONT stop praying... and when you cuss, say sorry to the person you cussed at, i no it sounds stupid but it will work!
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the only way to stop cussin is to force yourself from it. or try to use words that sound like ir but arent it. try that out and see if it works. hope i helped a little
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Why would you want to stop cussing, cussing is awesome. But anyway, tell your friend to bitch clap you everytime you cuss. It'll get you to stop. But you might be red.
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try finding new words to say and somtimes to start off you have to say them on purpose ..like if you drop somthing or fall say like snappp or somthing. everytime you cusss give yourself a beesting..it will hurt but your attiction(i suck at spelling) to cussing will go away on its own!!
<3 hope things work out
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hey ok you have a couple options
-every time you cuss, or every morning or night whichever, say a prayer to god go help you stop cussing.
-wear a rubberband or hair thing around you wrist, and everytime you cuss snap it really hard; think of this as a sort of punishment towards yourself for doing this
good luck!!! xoxo helpachick
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Have someone hit/pintch you everytime you cuss. Or just tell remind you every time you cuss. But really, the hitting/pintching thing works better.
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