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i need big help
ok well i have a pretty big crush on a girl at school. But there is a huge problem. Two other girls like me and i dont really like them and i dont want to say no to them cause they would freak out on me... I used to like one of the girls but now i dont and she still thinks i do. what should i do. i really dont wanna go out with them i want to go out with the girl a like. How should i begin to talk with her.
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♥ Well I think you need to know that once you date a girl your feelings become stronger and stronger for them. Well you probably already know this, but I'm just revising.So the girl who likes you now and you don't like her feelings have been strong and now she wants you back. This girl you have to talk to and break it to her gently because you cared for her and you probably still do you just don't want her. You probably don't want her gettin hurt, but you also don't want her. I hope you understand what I am saying. The other girl don't mind her unless you have some sort of feelings for her wether they are liking feelings or friend feelings. If you somewat of like her tell her you really aren't interested. If you like her as a friend don't bother with it.
♥ As for the girl you like tell he how you feel. I know its a big step but if you tell her now she might become to grow towards you to. Just explain to her about the two other girls and tell her how you could care less about them. Tell her you want her. Most likely she will say the same. Once she does go for the kill. Ask her to do something with you. If she likes you back she will agree. From here on you are in charge. Treat her right and be good. Don't pressure her into anything and I can promise you that she will have feelings for you like she hasn't ever.
♥Glam
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don't go out with a girl you don't like, she'll just end up getting hurt in the end if she really likes you that much, follow your heart.
♥ hlynn_adorkable
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Just try asking the other girls if you could just be really good friends for now.
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The two that you like just tell them that it would be weird you guys dated because you guys seem like good friends. Sometimes dating your friends can make you uncomfortable. Or you could tell them that you like someone else. For the girl you like if you have any classes with her you could ask for her help on a subject. Or have your friends and her friends all hang out together like going to the movies. You could invite her to come along that way you can get to know her better.
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well bro i feel for you. i went through something like you goin through now. this is how you handle it: first, tell the other girls something like this," i don't really like you like a girlfriend, just as a friend. so can we just be friends." now when you get that taken care of you go and tell the other girl (that u like) how you feel and ask her out.
it that simple.
i hope i helped. have fun dude
-#52 matt howard
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just b sweet and get to know her. she'll get to like you over time. show her your sensitive side. i am a gurl i know!
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Don't go out with someone you don't like. They might hate you a little for it but they'll get over it eventually. As for the girl you actually do like, you could start by complimenting her on something that she's wearing. "Hey, I like your shoes" or something like that always works. If you know she's particularly interested in something, ask her about it, even if you know nothing about it. Starting a conversation about what interests her would be a good way to break the ice.
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Well.. I Think that you should just start off with.. Hi.. How are you doing.. Or.. Hey... What's going On... It's not difficult to talk to a female.. But.. If you like this girl.. you should tell her.. Before its too late and she has been takin by another guy... But for the other girls.. you need to tell them straight up that you dont like them.. and that you dont want to be with either of them.. So what if they freak out.. There are other guys out there that they can go out with... Talk to this girl you like.... Chances are.. she may like you too..
Good Luck.. Hope This Helps...
*Jackie*
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