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My dogs just chased a Ups man (lol) and he ran for his life. I got my dogs calmed down and I told him I was very sorry. But what can I do to prevent this in the future? I have 2 House Dogs (that stay outside!) and 1 other 'old' dog that bit a boy one time. So what Can I do?? Thanks!

lol they say that dogs don't like man in uniform, so i'd say alot of people might have this problem.. although i didn't have this problem with my dog because the UPS guy who ever came to my house kept dog bones/biscuits in his truck and would give them to the dogs to keep friendly with them.. if you have the same UPS guy most of the time you could talk to him about that or if he doesn't want to spend his own money on that you could give him a little container of them to give to your dog so they won't scare him like that..
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Hi,
I am 19, blonde and VERY pale. I consequentially can't find any decent colours of make-up - if I wear anything too pale, I look wishy-washy as I already have fair hair and skin. If I wear anything darker, I look gothic and I have nothing against goths but that's not what I'm going for :) Does anyone have any suggestions for some natural-looking make-up? Or some colours that may work? I have grey eyes, if that helps.
Thanks!
P.S. This has to be suitable for work, as I am a nanny and don't want to scare the children in my charge lol! On the other hand, some ideas for going-out make-up would be good too :)

well i'm not big on make up but i know you can go to the mall and go to a department store like Kaufmann's, Lazarus, Macy's, etc.. and where the make up is you can have some one who works there find you something that works with your skin and stuff,, hope i helped..
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i like this guy, hes 17, and he has a gf. i was hanging out with my friends yesterday and he was there, i new him from lik 3 years a go because i tired to get the hook up with him, but he ended up going out with my best friend, and that was totally kool wit me. and now 3 years lata i see him. and i didnt reconize him. but then i relized it was him and me and him were ahngin out. well him and his 2 friends had to leave, and he asked if i woudl walk him out to his car so i was lik yea. i did and we walked up the street a lil, and he asked for my number i gave it too him and he said that him and his friends made a bet that he couldnt kiss a girl tonight, so he asked for a kiss and i gave him a kiss, and we made out a lil, not people are saying im a slut because i made out with a guy that i liked but i wasnt goin out with him, and they said it was stupid of me because i new it was a bet, well i new it was a bet and i dont really mind bcuz it was a win win situation, i got a kiss and he won the bet i dont understand the big deal is. y would ppl call me a slut ad stuff just because i kissed him? wats the big deal?

hey well if i were you i'd tell these girls exactly what you told us, tell them at least it was just a kiss with a guy i wasn't with and not sex.. because there are plenty of girls out there who have sex with guys they aren't dating or who have gf's, those are the sluts..
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okay theres this guy and i went out with him in the 6th grade and part of the 7th and we went out 4 a year and i told him that i loved him and i ment it the only thing is that wen we broke up he moved and i cant get over him but i have a boyfriend now and i realli dont want to tell him but i think he should no i still have feelings 4 my first love (( i guess i can put it that way)) but i realli dont no how to tell him. and the thing is wen i think about him (( first love)) i almost if not cry and i cant get over him and ive tryed and tryed but i cant and my friend says that itll get better and that everyone has more than 1 love but i cant get over my first. and my other friend told me no one can get over there first love. and none of it helps realli well my best friend did help me some but i still cant get over him and its been 1 year sence we broke up :\

that's right, you can never get over your first love.. i'm still with mine and i know this for a fact because we broke up once and at first i couldn't believe we weren't together anymore, then i realized and was really over and all i could do was cry because i didn't think i would ever have him back, luckily i got my way and we are still together.. if i were you i'd try to get in touch with him some how but depending on where he moved to.. u might not want to have a relationship with someone you'll never be able to see, or just write to, talk to online or on the phone because it's just not the same as a relationship where you can physically be with the person.. if you get in touch with him and get back together and can never see each other, chances are one of you will end up cheating on each other because your relationship won't be complete with hugs, kisses and all that good stuff!
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my boyfriend wants me to things (not sex) that i dont really wanna do but i want him to be happy. what should i do?

don't do anything that you don't want to do, u'll just regret it in the end, tell him you aren't ready for things like that yet and if he really loves you he should understand and respect your choices, if not he isn't worth it..
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I have a boyfriend who is really awesome. He is a year younger than me. His name is *Michael.* My freind always flirts with him and he flirts back. What should i do?

Well you can't really blame this on just your friend or just your bf.. talk to your friend about this and tell her to back off, she isn't a true friend if shes flirting with your bf.. also talk to your bf and tell him that you don't like the flirting thats going on between him and your friend.. if your friend wouldn't flirt with him, he wouldn't have the chance to flirt back, although if he loves you he wouldn't flirt back.. anyways thats just my ideas but if you want this to work out you need to talk to them both.. another thing you could do is when the three of you are together flirt with your bf 24/7 so she won't have a change to, hehe..

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hey does anyone know what the AIM virus does? I got it and I know it sends im's to everyone else on your buddy list, but is that it? please answer a.s.a.p NeLLiE x0x

P.S. Is it also true that you have to uninstall and then reinstall AIM? thats what my friend told me...

well it sends a link to everyone on your buddy list and if that person opens the link, they will receive the virus too..try the uninstall and the reinstall AIM and if it doesn't work go to google.com and search for aim virus remover or something like that and u should find something that you can download to remove the virus, hope i helped..
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My Best friend Jessie likes this guy ( Michael ) for about a week. Secretly I`ve liked him for almost a month but I never told him cause I could always tell she sorta liked him too. Now everyone's tellin me he likes me and he's going to ask me out. I feel really badly cause my Bff likes him too! I told her I like him and she said she'ss not mad but I can tell she is. If he asks me out what do I do? She's my bff and i love her more then any guy.

Hey i can totally relate to this so i hope i can help. i was in the same sort of situation, me and my (ex)bestfriend both liked the same guy, me at the time i've never had a boyfriend and she had so i didn't think i really had a chance, one time the three of us were together and i tried hooking them up but she said she didn't want a bf & i think he said he didn't like her or maybe he just said no, not sure this was about 2 years ago, anyways.. a little later he asked me out and i didn't really know what to say because yes i liked him but i knew she did too and i didn't want her to get mad at me over a boy, but i tried to get them 2 together but obviously they didn't want each other and i did say yes, we are still together today and we are closer than i ever was with my bestfriend and she changed alot over time and we aren't even friends any more and the two of them hate each other.. well my point is we had good and bad times but talk to them both and get their points and see what happens, if she says she won't get mad then do it, if she does it's not your fault because she said she wouldn't, hope i helped.
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im sorry its long but i really really need help!!

my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff. now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! also jessica keeps saying to everyone how hot my boyfriend is and she wont stop talking about him and stuff. now were fighting and he just doesnt understand anything. i tried talking to him but it doesnt work. everyone else (including guys) understand but he doesnt. grrrrr

hey, you should definately talk to him about this.. i know i wouldn't like it if my bf was doing that and i know how it feels to have a girl trying to get on your property, if you know what i mean lol.. it's not pretty and well, it sucks..i don't know your personality but i know me i'm shy so i couldn't really say anything to them about it UNLESS they did it in front of my face, but if i were you i'd tell the bitch to back off and i'd talk to him about it.
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Okay, I went out with this guy right, and we broke up and everything and then we went out again and then we broke up again but i still really like him and now he has a g/f and we used to talk all the time and now that he has a g/f we don't talk ne more and i really miss it and everything and i don't know what to do should i just forget about him and move on or should i try talking to him again?

HELP

well see you have to look at both sides of the story.. think of you being his gf, you wouldn't like it if his ex-gf was trying to get him back would you? he's in a new relationship & you don't want to go barging in, forgetting about him would probably be the best thing to do but that can often take a long time & it may hurt alot seeing the 2 of them together. BUT.. if you really love him as much as you say it's going to be hard to forget about him and if he really means that much to you don't take the risk of losing him.. if you really want him back that much and you are confident you can get him back, go for it you probably won't regret it, and do it now if you are going to, don't wait til they are already in a good relationship cause that will mess things up on their part, and your chances of getting him back will probably go down. hope i helped :)

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ok well i have a pretty big crush on a girl at school. But there is a huge problem. Two other girls like me and i dont really like them and i dont want to say no to them cause they would freak out on me... I used to like one of the girls but now i dont and she still thinks i do. what should i do. i really dont wanna go out with them i want to go out with the girl a like. How should i begin to talk with her.

don't go out with a girl you don't like, she'll just end up getting hurt in the end if she really likes you that much, follow your heart.

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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

15, with my wonderful boyfriend i've been with for 20 months, still together

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