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typical middle school drama.
My Best friend Jessie likes this guy ( Michael ) for about a week. Secretly I`ve liked him for almost a month but I never told him cause I could always tell she sorta liked him too. Now everyone's tellin me he likes me and he's going to ask me out. I feel really badly cause my Bff likes him too! I told her I like him and she said she'ss not mad but I can tell she is. If he asks me out what do I do? She's my bff and i love her more then any guy.
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Hey i can totally relate to this so i hope i can help. i was in the same sort of situation, me and my (ex)bestfriend both liked the same guy, me at the time i've never had a boyfriend and she had so i didn't think i really had a chance, one time the three of us were together and i tried hooking them up but she said she didn't want a bf & i think he said he didn't like her or maybe he just said no, not sure this was about 2 years ago, anyways.. a little later he asked me out and i didn't really know what to say because yes i liked him but i knew she did too and i didn't want her to get mad at me over a boy, but i tried to get them 2 together but obviously they didn't want each other and i did say yes, we are still together today and we are closer than i ever was with my bestfriend and she changed alot over time and we aren't even friends any more and the two of them hate each other.. well my point is we had good and bad times but talk to them both and get their points and see what happens, if she says she won't get mad then do it, if she does it's not your fault because she said she wouldn't, hope i helped.
♥ hlynn_adorkable
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talk to her .. ask her what you just asked us .. and same for her ask her, what would she do if she asked her out .. i mean i wouldnt wanna get my bff mad over a boy that might not even be right for you .. then you'd probably loose out on alot, maybe ur bff and the boy and i dont think thats much fun at all. well i hope i helped, but yes i think you should just sit down and talk to her.
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well see i had the same thing happen to me. this is nothing but trouble. you can however do what i wish i had done... just try dating him, but dont ever ditch your friend for him and if you can bring her along when you hang with him.
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whoooa the same thing happend to me but i was in the other postion and definatly dont go out with Michael because sercretly she is probally really hurt inside. if she is your best friend you guys will probally know eachother for a longgg time but this Michael kid will just be a thing of the past in a little while! thats just what i know from experience. <3 hope things work out
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I would try to get over him, because she's probably going to get really pissed.
But then again, try to explain to her that you really have feelings for this guy, and maybe she'll realize that you've liked him for longer. Besides, if he likes you, then what's the point of just wasting that because she likes him too (DO NOT SAY THAT TO HER!!)?
If she seems like she can't really get over him, then just forget him. I know it's hard, but it really sucks when someone's mad at you because of some stupid guy. Chicks before dicks, ya know?
Good luck with that.
!~*becca*~!
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u know that even if you liked him she is your best friend, u should't go out w/ him. yea he may be cute and u may like him but like i said she is your best friend and she should mean more to you. if you plan on goin out w/ him talk to your friend about it first or you could b in for a rude awakining!
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