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Age: 14
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Member Since: November 3, 2005
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Last Update: November 4, 2005
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Does anyone know a book filled with tips for teen guys on teen girls. Authors would be nice too. (link)
Chicken soup for the teenage soul

I havent read it but i heard thats what its abgout.


hey does anyone know what the AIM virus does? I got it and I know it sends im's to everyone else on your buddy list, but is that it? please answer a.s.a.p NeLLiE x0x

P.S. Is it also true that you have to uninstall and then reinstall AIM? thats what my friend told me... (link)
i think it can send the cirus to all your friend to if they answer to your IM's .. but yes you would probably have to uninstall and reinstall AIM .. good luck!


My Best friend Jessie likes this guy ( Michael ) for about a week. Secretly I`ve liked him for almost a month but I never told him cause I could always tell she sorta liked him too. Now everyone's tellin me he likes me and he's going to ask me out. I feel really badly cause my Bff likes him too! I told her I like him and she said she'ss not mad but I can tell she is. If he asks me out what do I do? She's my bff and i love her more then any guy. (link)
talk to her .. ask her what you just asked us .. and same for her ask her, what would she do if she asked her out .. i mean i wouldnt wanna get my bff mad over a boy that might not even be right for you .. then you'd probably loose out on alot, maybe ur bff and the boy and i dont think thats much fun at all. well i hope i helped, but yes i think you should just sit down and talk to her.


Hi,
I am 19, blonde and VERY pale. I consequentially can't find any decent colours of make-up - if I wear anything too pale, I look wishy-washy as I already have fair hair and skin. If I wear anything darker, I look gothic and I have nothing against goths but that's not what I'm going for :) Does anyone have any suggestions for some natural-looking make-up? Or some colours that may work? I have grey eyes, if that helps.
Thanks!
P.S. This has to be suitable for work, as I am a nanny and don't want to scare the children in my charge lol! On the other hand, some ideas for going-out make-up would be good too :) (link)
im a boy and all, but i think maybe if you went tanning? make it a little darker skin and then maybe you'll have a bigger variety if make up to use? just a suggestion hope i helped .


Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for quite a long time, almost 2 years. We both love each other to death, receantly, about a few months ago we started having sex. We do it alot, sometimes with condoms and sometimes with out, but if we don't use a condom he always pulls out before he cums, i'm not exactly happy about this and i'd rather not take that risk but we can't resist eachother! what should i do? i'm thinking about birthcontrol but i don't know how to go a about that, i definately am not going to tell my parents because they would be furious! :( help please? (link)
lol heather, well i think you should deffenitly go with the birthcontrol .. because yea we cant resist each other and we dont need a little jared or little heather running around!


okay theres this guy and i went out with him in the 6th grade and part of the 7th and we went out 4 a year and i told him that i loved him and i ment it the only thing is that wen we broke up he moved and i cant get over him but i have a boyfriend now and i realli dont want to tell him but i think he should no i still have feelings 4 my first love (( i guess i can put it that way)) but i realli dont no how to tell him. and the thing is wen i think about him (( first love)) i almost if not cry and i cant get over him and ive tryed and tryed but i cant and my friend says that itll get better and that everyone has more than 1 love but i cant get over my first. and my other friend told me no one can get over there first love. and none of it helps realli well my best friend did help me some but i still cant get over him and its been 1 year sence we broke up :\ (link)
well your not going to get over ur first love, im still with mine .. but i think if i ever broke up with her .. i'd die .. but i mean you could try and call him? write to him? something in that category? try to make contact with him, and yes tell your bf that your with now about it, if he really thinks the way you do, then he will know how you feel.


im sorry its long but i really really need help!!

my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff. now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! also jessica keeps saying to everyone how hot my boyfriend is and she wont stop talking about him and stuff. now were fighting and he just doesnt understand anything. i tried talking to him but it doesnt work. everyone else (including guys) understand but he doesnt. grrrrr
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well you need to find a good place to talk and get him and just sit him down and be like, whats up with you, whats up with her .. whats going on, is there something i dont know about? is there something i need to notified about? whatevers going on i dont like it .. and make him choose if he really loves you and cares about you as much as you think, test him! see the truth behind things, well good luck!


hey, i was wondering if weed will show up in a blood test. I'm probably going to have one for something completely un-related to drugs. i mean like, they aren't looking for weed or anything. So, i guess i'm wondering if it will show up at all and if they have to be specifically looking for it to find it. How long does it stay in your system? I've heard 38 days, but i've only smoked twice (yesterday and three days ago) and i didn't smoke very much at all. Between both days, i probably didn't even have a bowl. Thanks (link)
yes lol, it will show up in a blood test, and it stays in your system for 30 days or a month


Okay, I went out with this guy right, and we broke up and everything and then we went out again and then we broke up again but i still really like him and now he has a g/f and we used to talk all the time and now that he has a g/f we don't talk ne more and i really miss it and everything and i don't know what to do should i just forget about him and move on or should i try talking to him again?

HELP
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i think if you feal confident enough that you can get him back then go for it, but if you cant then .. i think you need to get over him, hes not worth it if he doesn't like you the same way you like him, you know? Or try and get him jealous lol .. but i suggest the first-two things i said, hope i was a bit of help


ive been in love with my boyfriend and hes in love with me for about a year now. but now were starting to fall apart, over the summer we used to hang out everyday now we hang out like once a month. and hes the kinda guy that flirts with alot of girls, but i trust him. yesterday i told him i was mad at him (because i was infront of him talking to him nd he was ingoureing me and ran to another girl) and he was like i dont care. that hurt alot... then today i was asking him why he said this and he was laughing about an inside joke. then he came online, and this was ower convo.

HIM: do you think its time time for a change?

ME: what do you mean...? 'change' of what

HIMME: no tell me

HIM: nvm

ME:k

ME: well your really acting like ur gonna break up with me... just get it over with if you r gonna.

HIM: jump to conclusions muchh?

ME: umm... well your acting like your gonna

HIM>: how does somone act like there gunna break up with somone

ME: they act like they dont like them....

hIM: well

>HIM>: do you wanna break up?

HIM: or take a brkeakk

ME: if i wanted to break up.. i would of broken up with you already....

HIM: o

ME: whatever

HIM: k?

ME: if your gonna break up with me then just do it now cuz im leaving soon...

HIM: fine

ME: fine what..?

HIM: uhh i dont no

then i signed off. but i dont no if i should break up with him, i love him to death and i really dont wanna break up with him. but it seems like were falling apart.=( should i? or no?

--confused.


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well seems to me like you have the same problems i do every once in a while, but it never goes that far to the point where were like do u want to break up or take a break, but i think you both might need some time away .. maybe only a few days .. maybe awhile. i dont know, but if you both love each other i dont think you should break up, just take a break .. then after awhile you wont want to ignore each other any more and .. yea .. well hope i helped


can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives. (link)
of course you can, why not?

as a tip: i heard oral makes the baby more healthy, the mans juice :p, makes it more healthy jus a little tip


Im 15 years old and i have another friend my age. we are both guys and i was wondering if there is any way to tell if he is gay or not. i dont want to just ask him BEcAUSE he might freak out but there has been a lot of signs but then again we all act a little gay now and then. We've been drunk before and he has blacked out and took his shirt off and asked me if i wanted him to be my pillow and of course i said yes because well im in the closet gay and totally have the hotts for him. the same night when he thought i was passed out he stuck my hand down his pants and rubbed it around his cock. Now he could have just been drunk BEcuAUSE he was giggling when he did it but i dont know it felt like he had a boner. i have also been using his stomach as a pillow this week and even laid in his crotch area today. hE'S also the only guy i knwoo who has given me a hug twice this week. i gave him one the first time and he gave me one today so maybe now that he knows i dont mind he"s doing it more> well enough with examples i have two questions> is there any way i can prove he is gay and whats hould i do and im not just going to ask him straight up BEcuAUSE that would be weird. please help me! (link)
well, hmm maybe not really asking him but maybe trying to get serious with him? see his reaction on that? i mean if he just trys to do whatever back then you should be able to tell? but im not sure on what to do about it.




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