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Hey! My name is Kaleena and I am 22 years old. I will be attending Cosmetology school to become a Hairstylist. I am into the the 60's, snowboarding, concerts, HAIR, and Jim Morrison (The Doors). Giving advice is a great feeling I take pleasure in. I love helping people with anything they need. Don't be afraid to ask me anything. Whether it is from sex to emotional health, I will try to help you the best to my ability.

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A guy that I'm friends and I know had feelings for me (but is shy) has been acting really strange around me.
For example, when he is alone with me he is sweet, attentive, kind, and likes to tease me. However, he acts totally different around his guy friends. We (me and another friend) planned a suprise birtday party for him. When he showed up at the restaurant he told me to sit a couple of tables down from him and his best friend. They got him some gross gifts from the porn shop and I think he was embarrased. Whenever I tried talking to him he couldnt look me in the eye, and when he did talk to me he wouldnt look me in the face. Do you think he was embarrassed of his friends and he was trying to protect me from being hurt? Or is there another reason for his behavior?

It is most likely his "ego", and trying to be cool and not admit that he could have an interest in you. Remember, girls are always more mature than guys so if you're young then chances are slim for him to come out and say something like he wants to be with you. Embarrassment could be a possibility too.

XO
Kaleena

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Hi. Ok heres my situation. I have been friends with these 2 guys (that are brothers) since i was born(im a girl)...their parents have always been friends with my parents and so we have known each other for ever. we all would hang out a lot when we were little when our families got together all the time and now (im 17...the guys are 17 and 16) we are all busy and i only see them maybe 2 or 3 times a year. I have always thought of them as like best friends...then like almost a year ago i think...me and the 17 yr old were sitting on the couch and he was laying all over me and in my lap and holding my hand and like running his hands all over my legs and kissing me and stuff and like really flirting and all this stuff...so since then i have had a crush on him...but i have seen them 2 times since then and he like barely looks at me anymore...like things are weird between us...i have his brothers number because we talk sometimes and i could easily get his number...i have it i just dont have it in my phone or anything...but i dont want things to be weird between us anymore...i wish we could go back to like being good friends and not have any tension. me and his brother are still normal and good friends when we see each other. What should i do...i dont think i should talk about it with him because it would just make things akward i guess but i dont see them that often so i dont have to many chances to do anything...
i just want it to go back to normal when we do see each other...what should i do...

Bringing up what happened won't help to much. If you just act like your normal self and treat him like before then he will start to feel more comfortable. The reason he feels comfortable is because he was doing those things with someone he has known forever like you said. Time just needs to pass so the awkwardness goes away. Eventually things will be back to normal and forgotten.

Kaleena

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tomarrow is picture retake day and im getting my pictures retaken ..my first pictures came out terrible.. i was wearing alot of liquid cover-up and you so could tell...my lips were chapped..it was soo humid that day so my hair was like a big ball of frizz and i had at huge pimple on my cheek.....i dont have a pimple on my cheek anymore im gonna scrunch my hair and wear powder cover up ..... do you have any other ideas on how to make the pictures come out better...heres a little info about me:brown shoulder length hair with alot of highlights makeing me alomst blonde...perfect eye brows.....really dark brown eyes...and i wear makeup but i hate dark eyeshadow it makes me look terrible

I think you should definitely go for the "natural" look. Wear light eyeshadow matching your skin tone or a little darker then your skin tone, if you have almond shaped eyes, where your eyeliner only the top to "open" up your eyes a little more (if you like that look). Wear gloss, clear is you have it. I wear the Lip Smackers clear flavored gloss. My absolute fave! They have the best scents. Paritng you hair in the middle would be best.

Kaleena

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Ok this is long but i need your help. All 5's.

OK, so i was in my cartoon desgighn class and i was way ahead so i was free drawing and i wanted to draw someone so i decided to draw this girl i admire named Sarah. So I drew a pic of her as best as i could. Her body was facing her work and her head was at n angle, so i moved my head to get an upright vision of her and she smiled at me. Could she have taken it as flirting?
later on, I was asking my teacher Mr. moglia for advice to make my picture more Sarah-ish and on the third trime i did, Sarah came up and i noticed her eyebrows looked sorta angry and annoid. Im wondering if it was just the angles and lighting or something else?

It's kinda hard to tell. Her gestures could not have even been towards you. If they were, and she saw the drawing, maybe she felt violated that you drew her without asking? If she has not spoken to you, then maybe she didn't like you did that.

Kaleena

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hey if anyone knows the clothing store papaya do they have a website?? also if they don't would someone be kind enough to tell me there locations in cali?? it would be so helpful that i would rate??
1- website
2- locations

thanx

I searched for a website and didn't find one. If you go to Yahoo and search Papaya and enter your location, it will give you a list. I don't know what part of California you are in so just type your address and it will tell the closest store locations.

Kaleena

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ok well I have been talking to myslef since I was about 6 or 7 and I seriously feel like I'm talking to someone else. I ask myself questions and then give myself an answer all out loud. When I think these I can't come to a solution, but when I talk to myself out loud I feel like another person is talking to me. I find myself looking in magazines and saying out loud and pointing as if I'm giving another person a visual "I'm her."(on that I also find myself choosing who I am in a movie show anything even books... what could that mean) And then I sit in my room and I act out diffent things talking to myself and then talking as if I'm another person and I can get so into it that I get angry or upset I can even cry example: (I have done this) i say "I love you so much" then "I don't know if this will last so let's not kid ourselves and continue with this" then my throat starts to close up and I get so into i say more and more and start feeling the emotions one would feel if this were actaully happening and then I just keep on talking to myself. Is this normal? If not what is it? I'm 13

It sounds like it could be pschizophrenia maybe? Do you see these people when you talk to them? That is typically what that is. You should look into more. Including your parents on this could benefit you as well. They will not be mad at you. They will be happy you came to them with this and then you can be taken to your family doctor and be evaluated.

XO
Kaleena

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hey

i was wondering how old do u have to be to get into a rated R movie..and if your to young all you need is your parents permission right??

thanks in advance!

You have to be 17, and your parent has to be with you. Unfortunately, you can't bring a note with their signature on it. =(

Kaleena

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