Hi. Ok heres my situation. I have been friends with these 2 guys (that are brothers) since i was born(im a girl)...their parents have always been friends with my parents and so we have known each other for ever. we all would hang out a lot when we were little when our families got together all the time and now (im 17...the guys are 17 and 16) we are all busy and i only see them maybe 2 or 3 times a year. I have always thought of them as like best friends...then like almost a year ago i think...me and the 17 yr old were sitting on the couch and he was laying all over me and in my lap and holding my hand and like running his hands all over my legs and kissing me and stuff and like really flirting and all this stuff...so since then i have had a crush on him...but i have seen them 2 times since then and he like barely looks at me anymore...like things are weird between us...i have his brothers number because we talk sometimes and i could easily get his number...i have it i just dont have it in my phone or anything...but i dont want things to be weird between us anymore...i wish we could go back to like being good friends and not have any tension. me and his brother are still normal and good friends when we see each other. What should i do...i dont think i should talk about it with him because it would just make things akward i guess but i dont see them that often so i dont have to many chances to do anything...
i just want it to go back to normal when we do see each other...what should i do...
HCOxBaBe5 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 11:39 pm: Tell him whatever has happined in the past doesnt effect the future and whatever happined you just wanna forget about nd` i belive things will go back to normal
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Autumn1483 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 9:38 pm: Bringing up what happened won't help to much. If you just act like your normal self and treat him like before then he will start to feel more comfortable. The reason he feels comfortable is because he was doing those things with someone he has known forever like you said. Time just needs to pass so the awkwardness goes away. Eventually things will be back to normal and forgotten.
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