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I have a question that may sound strange, but tis a genuine question. I live in the UK, and I know nobody who supports George Bush, or even has a good word to say about him. He is generally a figure of hate. But I don't want to be close-minded, I just want a reasonably intelligent answer from somebody as to why they voted for George Bush, because I cannot see any good points to the guy at all.
Thanks!
Oh this is an EASY EASY question. Bush is the best man ever!!!!! He believes in EVERYTHING i do. He is a catholic and he doesn't believe in abortion and is trying to stop it. He is a walking role model of who I want to turn out like.
I hope this helps a little.
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(Rating: 3) I assume you are trying to be sarcastic, in which case thankyou for your meagre attempt at humour.
Thats what she did to me to! (link)
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umm I wasn't trying to be smart. I was trying to help... but yea I like to throw in a lil humor here and there to get people feeling better. So SORRY if I sounded to sarcastic.
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Well this young man, is all that I am looking for right now, I am so afraid to give him a chance because I had just jumped in a relationship last time and got hurt. So should I follow my heart or should I weight things out first? Please Help (link)
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Get to know the guy, weigh out the pro's and cons. If you really really like him then jump on it but not to fast. Explain to him about your past and what you are afraid of. Tell him you don't want to get hurt and if he don't think it'll work then tell him that yall can just be friends and maybe move forward in the future.
Hope I helped!!
TakeT_H_Achance
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hi i like this boy. i want to be freinds with him and talk to him with out him knowing that i lke him.i kno were his locker is (right acrass from mine if i could do somthing with that)help (link)
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Dear Help,
Don't be shy go ask talk to the guy. Smile at him or tell him he is looking good. Trust me that has a big impact on our school if a girl says that. Only at my school it is sooo small evryone knows everyone. But if you are in a big school. Introduce yourself and begin a convo. Like if you have any classes with him, ask him if he would like to help you on it. I mean that could start yall off.
I hope I helped.
Sincerly
TakeT_H_Achance
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I have a question that may sound strange, but tis a genuine question. I live in the UK, and I know nobody who supports George Bush, or even has a good word to say about him. He is generally a figure of hate. But I don't want to be close-minded, I just want a reasonably intelligent answer from somebody as to why they voted for George Bush, because I cannot see any good points to the guy at all.
Thanks! (link)
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Oh this is an EASY EASY question. Bush is the best man ever!!!!! He believes in EVERYTHING i do. He is a catholic and he doesn't believe in abortion and is trying to stop it. He is a walking role model of who I want to turn out like.
I hope this helps a little.
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As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.
My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then dump before you graduate high school/college? Right now, I would to state that no, I am not biased in seeing guys as heart-breakers and have no feelings. I'm just wondering, since I have no idea what a guy's notion of flirting is. Do guys believe in love at first sight or true love? Or is it that the only love left in this world is more similar to lust? Do you guys have high standards in what you expect in the 'perfect' girl?
Girls. Do any of you girls find yourselves falling in love with every single guy that comes along and makes an impact or small dent in your life? Do you find yourself daydreaming about the cute guy you've never talked to before or one of your new guy friends falling in love with you? Do you believe that out there, somewhere, there is a perfect guy? Do you believe that you'll meet him before you graduate high school or after? before you graduate college or after? I'm the type of person who wants a soul mate before graduating high school. High standard but what can I say? Almost every girl dreams of finding the perfect one before too long. Is it wrong to have too many high standards for what you want in a guy?
Now this section is to either gender. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? People probably have asked this question many times before, but I'm still curious. I've fallen in and out of love faster than you can say "omgimthinkimlove~". I can't really trust my feelings so saying things like "just trust your heart" does not bode well with me. What's the difference between love and lust as in how do you know when you feeling lust instead of love? Can you trust yourself to truly to be 'heads over heels' in love? Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely? Define true love, give me how you feel when you believe you're truly in love.
Anyone who bothers to read this entire question passage and cares to think deeply about the questions i've asked and answers thoughtfully would definitely get a 5. I would be really surprised if more than three people answer more than three questions or bother to answer at all. Answer more than two questions at least please. If you read this far, congratulations you get a virtual cookie and probably a 5 if you answer all the above questions [depending on if you're a girl or guy] or more than three. Idiots who have no idea what they're saying and are trying to sound philosophical will have a 1 branded on their foreheads or something. (link)
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Any time I see a guy that I just met or have a conversation that really makes me think. I begin to fall for them. Yes I always daydream about guys even if I don't know their names. And I will begin to think that if they look at me they think I am pretty and like me. I don't know, though I have mixed feelings all the time. Yes, I believe there is one perfect guy for every girl. Although I also believe that they are not gonna be perfect to EVERY woman's expectations but in your eyes when you are in love he seems SO perfect. I believe you will meet them after collage. Because when you are young every guy that is cute makes you turn your head. And when you are older you have had plenty of expeirence and you know what you do and don't want in a guy. I want to wait and explore my options and get to know as many guys as I can so I know I am making the right decision that will make me happy for the rest of my life.I don't realyl have a high standard. All I want is for a guy to care about me, respect me, and love me for me not my features. Yes it is every girls dream to find 'prince charming' No I don't think it is wrong but I do believe it will be VERY hard for you to find the guy like that. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? Hmmm this is a hard question. Love is when you want to be with someone so much you can hardly breath but lust is when you like someone but you could change when you saw another cute guy pass. I have fallen for many guys too. I am a big flirt and I know that sounds bad but I am. I mean I don't mean to be but I try to be nice and to people it looks like I am flirting. I can't really trust my feelings either and how I deal with it is to wait and see if the love lasts. Like if you 'love' someone else the next day or week you can more than likely tell it was just lust. but if it lasts atlease 4 months I say it is love. You can't trust yourself completely for everything but you learn more about yourself by listening to you heart. I know you said that don't bode with you but you may be have mixtures between what your HEAD is telling you and what your HEART is telling you. Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely?' yea they can. It is telling you that you need someone to love and you need someone to hold you. I get this feeling a lot. I think that may be the reason why I always hug everyone. True Love: That can't eat, can't sleep, reach for the stars over the fence, world series kind of love.(that is my definition of TRUE LOVE.) The real definition is..
True Love:
True love is very misunderstood, and despite the best efforts of philosophers through out the ages it still remains a mystery to most people. The definition of true love offered by Dr. Peck is worth considering, however. Basically, he explains true love as giving of yourself for the sake of the spiritual growth of other people and for your own spiritual growth.
The first thing you may notice about this definition is that it implies true love has a purpose, and that purpose revolves around personal growth. Love is not just an emotion, however intense and deep it feels. Central to this definition is the idea that through loving others we ourselves grow. Through the practice of loving we become a more loving person. Spiritual growth can thus be measured by how loving we truly are. True love of oneself is also included in this definition. To love yourself means doing what is good for your own personal and spiritual growth, even when it is uncomfortable or difficult. Loving ourselves does not mean just being nice to ourselves and satisfying all our earthly pleasures. (In reality, this is very detrimental to our spiritual growth because it makes us self-indulgent and self-centered.)
To love others takes effort, and in some cases this can be very hard work. Ideally, we should also be able to love people whom we do not particularly like or find attractive. This is not as unreasonable as it may sound, if you understand that love is not just a feeling, but it is expressed when you do something for another person that benefits their spiritual and emotional growth, which in turn helps them realize their full human potential.
When I think I am in love.. Is when all I can think about is him and that he is the best thing in the world. He can do no wrong and anything people say bad about him is NOT true and he could never do something that would hurt me or make me cry.
I hope I helped you. If you need more adivce ask me! I will try and help.
Xoxo,
TakeT_H_Achance!
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well in my first question i told you about how i like my best friend and how she likes this really hot guy.
Now we always talk about every single thing
Now we talk about the guy When she asks "should i go out with him" what should i say to her
I mean if i like her and i want to go out with her but she wants to go out with him what should i say. (link)
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If you really care about her let her go for the guy. And if she comes back to you, you will know how she feels. I know this myte hurt to let her go out with someone other than you because you feel so strongly to her. Have you ever heard the quote "If you really love them let them go. And if they come back you know it was ment?" well that is your deal here. If you don't want to do that then tell her how you feel. And talk about trying to go another step past 'just friends'
I really hope I helped
Xoxo
TakeT_H_Achance
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I'm a 17/F, junior in high school. I'm seriously debating dropping out my senior year. Just finish out school until I'm 18 and no longer legally have to attend. I simply hate school, all it does is cause problems and drama in my life. With the things I've done, I wont get accepted into college anyway, so I figure I'll go to a community college when I'm ready because you don't even have to graduate to go to one of those. I already have a job that I absolutely love, so finding a job because I'm a dropout wont be a problem, and I'll be going to college anyway. Everyone I know is a senior this year, so next year will be miserable when all my friends are gone, and teachers suck, and other people are just self centered assholes, that I don't want to be around anyway. What are the pros and cons of dropping out for me at this point? Is anyone out there a dropout? Any experiences to share? (link)
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You have only 1 year after your Jr. Year. Your senior year is the funnest of them all! and your Jr. Year is the hardest. But if you want to be succesful in life then atleast get you HS diploma. Or it will be REALLY hard to get a job that pays more than Minimum wage. But if you have big plans then go for them but just finish HS because it is the foundation of the rest of your life. I don't plan to drop out because I can see what it does to you. Just please think about it and think it ALL THE WAY through because you don't want to make a mistake that you will regret.
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Hmm... I guess this question may have been aked quite a lot but here it goes. I am currently a freshmen, and there is this very cute junior at my school. I see him every other day during lunch and he's always staring at me, and it's obvious that he's talking about me with his friends. Plus I know one of his friends and he has told me that the guy likes me. The problem is he never approaches me. Do you think I should try to make a move or play it cool and wait for him to say something? (link)
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Hey I am in the same boat as you are right now. What I have learned is to talk to him and be friendly. I would make the first move but I am a bit scared of what he really thinks of me. I know that sounds as if I shouldn't answering this question but if I give advice it is easier to do it for yourself too. So Yea. Go for it. Make the first move. Guys can be shy to you know.
I Hope I helped...
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ok...well me n my ex bf broke up in august...and ive been missing him ever since...like he was the best bf i could askfor...and when we broke up i was devistated...i tried dating other ppl to get over him but it wouldnt work...then in october we got back together and i was sooooo happy its not even funny...then like a couple days ago he dumped me...like...its soooo hard to get over him and im trying as hard as i can...i just cant let him go uk? well n e ways, when i asked him why he dumped me he couldnt give me an answer...like tonite he was at my house and he left around 12:30 ish...we just like had a really long talk and he gave me all these hugs and stuff and like i totaly spilled my guts to him saying that like i wasnt gonna get over him anytime soon and that i like him so much it hurts. and like he said that he was sorry but like i also told him that i wanted to go back out with him so bad and that it sucked when he said that he was single...he just listened to me and gave me all these hugs and like...for a minute it seemed like he kinda wanted to go back out w/me but idk...its just really confusing and like i miss him so much...like when we were together i was the happiest i had ever been in my life...and when i lost him there was just like somehting missing...and its like there is still something missing to this day...like i just miss him so much...i just dont know what to do anymore...like my head is saying to forget him b/c im sick of getting hurt all the time...and like my heart is saying not to let go b/c he is seriously the best thing in my life... i just dont know what to do =(
plz help me ill rate high =(
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Dear rrenef,
I'm sorry you got hurt. Life can be cruel like that and I know you don't want to forget him. And if you don't want to then DON'T. He is the best thing that happend to you and unfortunatly for him he just gave up chance of a liftime!! He don't know what he just did. And that is kind of like me. except it was with a friend. What I did was confronted him (just like you did) and he said it didn't matter which it did but I didn't argue. Anyways. If you can't get over him then just remember all the good times yall had,and that will help. Be positive not negative. "Life is always greener on the other side" I am referring to positive and negative thoughts. Stay good friends with him. I know it may hurt but if you don't then you just may lose him forever. If you act like you are all bummed out over him he will just think of you as one of those emotional criers. BE STRONG. And if you do that he will relize what a terrible mistake he made by breaking your heart.
I really really really hope I helped you. Because I really really really tried.
*And I hope everything turns out the way you want it to*
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hey ya'll.... ok im a 13 year old girl and i live with my dad and my twin brother... i have to share a room with my brother and as you might know i have no privacy whatsoever... okay like 1 day ago i started my period for the first time...but i odnt know how to tell my dad because i need to go buy some more supplies... and i dont want to tell my brother but im sure hell find out and i kno it will be akward.... so heres my question.. how do i tell my dad(hes a manly man) and i want to tell my brother so it wont be as akward if he finds out on his own.......how do i tell them?!?!!??!?!?o ya and how do i tell my brother to keep his mouth shut cause at the moment i dont want anyone to know!?!?!?!? thanks! (link)
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Okay...Ugh I am in a family where my parents split. Well the time I first time I started happend to be when I was with MY dad. Although my dad had NEVER find out and prolly NEVER will I went to a friend for supplies. I know it might be awkward but if you are scared to tell your dad ask a friend.. ALL girls go through this. It is normal. So I know it migh tbe hard but sit down with your brother and dad. and tell them "guys I don't know how else to tell you. and after I tell you I don't want yall to say anything. but in life as a girl gets older she begins to change as yall know. Well I had my first time of the month.. (which is how I say it)" and explain to them what you need and how you need them to support you since you are the only girl. Like me. I have 2 brothers 1 is 16 and the other 13 I am 14 and then is my dad. and I have like a whole other family on my mom's side. So explain to them why you don't want them to say anything and how you need their support. I promise they will understand.
I hope I helped! (@Laters&)
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well...there is this guy...named mike...and like i went out with him overthe summer and we didnt last long atall... liek a week...well when me n my x-bf broke up i started to like him again...a lot but like my best friend likes him and like she will not stop talking about him she likes him so much...well i started goin out w/him last night and like idk if shes gonna be mad...like should i tell her right away? or should i wait to see what shee thinks? im just like realy confuzed on what to do like...idk and also...i still have MAJOR feelings for my ex who was my first love and i cant get over him...=( (link)
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DEFINATLY tell her. I know it may be hard. But if she is a true friend she will understand. And if you wait to tell her then she will just think you stabbed her in the back. I hope I helped!
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Hi. Ok heres my situation. I have been friends with these 2 guys (that are brothers) since i was born(im a girl)...their parents have always been friends with my parents and so we have known each other for ever. we all would hang out a lot when we were little when our families got together all the time and now (im 17...the guys are 17 and 16) we are all busy and i only see them maybe 2 or 3 times a year. I have always thought of them as like best friends...then like almost a year ago i think...me and the 17 yr old were sitting on the couch and he was laying all over me and in my lap and holding my hand and like running his hands all over my legs and kissing me and stuff and like really flirting and all this stuff...so since then i have had a crush on him...but i have seen them 2 times since then and he like barely looks at me anymore...like things are weird between us...i have his brothers number because we talk sometimes and i could easily get his number...i have it i just dont have it in my phone or anything...but i dont want things to be weird between us anymore...i wish we could go back to like being good friends and not have any tension. me and his brother are still normal and good friends when we see each other. What should i do...i dont think i should talk about it with him because it would just make things akward i guess but i dont see them that often so i dont have to many chances to do anything...
i just want it to go back to normal when we do see each other...what should i do... (link)
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Talk to him. He needs to know how you are feeling. Just gopherit! Things will come out for the best if that is what was meant to be.
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