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ok...well me n my ex bf broke up in august...and ive been missing him ever since...like he was the best bf i could askfor...and when we broke up i was devistated...i tried dating other ppl to get over him but it wouldnt work...then in october we got back together and i was sooooo happy its not even funny...then like a couple days ago he dumped me...like...its soooo hard to get over him and im trying as hard as i can...i just cant let him go uk? well n e ways, when i asked him why he dumped me he couldnt give me an answer...like tonite he was at my house and he left around 12:30 ish...we just like had a really long talk and he gave me all these hugs and stuff and like i totaly spilled my guts to him saying that like i wasnt gonna get over him anytime soon and that i like him so much it hurts. and like he said that he was sorry but like i also told him that i wanted to go back out with him so bad and that it sucked when he said that he was single...he just listened to me and gave me all these hugs and like...for a minute it seemed like he kinda wanted to go back out w/me but idk...its just really confusing and like i miss him so much...like when we were together i was the happiest i had ever been in my life...and when i lost him there was just like somehting missing...and its like there is still something missing to this day...like i just miss him so much...i just dont know what to do anymore...like my head is saying to forget him b/c im sick of getting hurt all the time...and like my heart is saying not to let go b/c he is seriously the best thing in my life... i just dont know what to do =(
plz help me ill rate high =(
rrenef
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Dear rrenef,
I'm sorry you got hurt. Life can be cruel like that and I know you don't want to forget him. And if you don't want to then DON'T. He is the best thing that happend to you and unfortunatly for him he just gave up chance of a liftime!! He don't know what he just did. And that is kind of like me. except it was with a friend. What I did was confronted him (just like you did) and he said it didn't matter which it did but I didn't argue. Anyways. If you can't get over him then just remember all the good times yall had,and that will help. Be positive not negative. "Life is always greener on the other side" I am referring to positive and negative thoughts. Stay good friends with him. I know it may hurt but if you don't then you just may lose him forever. If you act like you are all bummed out over him he will just think of you as one of those emotional criers. BE STRONG. And if you do that he will relize what a terrible mistake he made by breaking your heart.
I really really really hope I helped you. Because I really really really tried.
*And I hope everything turns out the way you want it to*
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