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A New Guy In Town
Well this young man, is all that I am looking for right now, I am so afraid to give him a chance because I had just jumped in a relationship last time and got hurt. So should I follow my heart or should I weight things out first? Please Help
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i think you should give it a while first...flirt with him and let him know you like him without making it too obvious...if he flirts back then start to get ready to ask him out if you want...Good Luck and I hope I helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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sweety you like i always say you should always follow your heart forget about the past forget about the future and live life now don't be afraid to give anyone a chance because you never know...
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Morbid
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You should follow your heart! .. if you really like him then you no whats right to do.. even tho you got hurt last time dosent mean its going to happen this time because its a different guy... so i think you should follow your heart..
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Always follow your heart. The heart can be a total dumbass sometimes but it's the thing that keeps love alive. In this life, we go throught heart ache and heart breaks but you gotta stick it with glue until someone can make it whole again. What's wrong with giving this person a chance? If you don't feel it's working, then learn a lesson and you'll know next time. Easier said than done I know, hang in there!
x Steph x
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You should do both. Follow your heart but maintain a clear head. Make sure that what you are feeling is not simply that chemical attraction called lust. This is something that we get all mixed up about. Most of the time people confuse lust for love. Then they find themselves in loveless relationship wondering what happened. They do not want to leave it because they have some memory of something they have confused with love and think that somewhere in this relationship it still exists. Others think that because they have made a commitment to someone that must be love. They did feel something in the beginning, right? Follow your heart, but take it slow. Get to know this person. Listen to his conversation about how he treats other people. Is he always running out on is friends? Is he loyal? Does he gossip about people a lot? Does he call people back when he is expected to? Does he respect other people's feelings? These are a few questions but I'm sure you can come up with many more. I'm just pointing out that you should simply take things slow. Become friends. Be observant. However he treats others is how he will treat you. And something I have learned from experience. People treat people closest to them worse than they do someone they hardly know. You would think that this would be in reverse, but no. You can lust for a lot of people, but love is much rarer.
Namaste
LULABELLE
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i think you should get to know him more before you go into a serious relationship. hang out with him as friends alone for awhile, and maybe ask around about him and see what his reputations like.
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Get to know the guy, weigh out the pro's and cons. If you really really like him then jump on it but not to fast. Explain to him about your past and what you are afraid of. Tell him you don't want to get hurt and if he don't think it'll work then tell him that yall can just be friends and maybe move forward in the future.
Hope I helped!!
TakeT_H_Achance
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