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i still love him
okay theres this guy and i went out with him in the 6th grade and part of the 7th and we went out 4 a year and i told him that i loved him and i ment it the only thing is that wen we broke up he moved and i cant get over him but i have a boyfriend now and i realli dont want to tell him but i think he should no i still have feelings 4 my first love (( i guess i can put it that way)) but i realli dont no how to tell him. and the thing is wen i think about him (( first love)) i almost if not cry and i cant get over him and ive tryed and tryed but i cant and my friend says that itll get better and that everyone has more than 1 love but i cant get over my first. and my other friend told me no one can get over there first love. and none of it helps realli well my best friend did help me some but i still cant get over him and its been 1 year sence we broke up :\
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that's right, you can never get over your first love.. i'm still with mine and i know this for a fact because we broke up once and at first i couldn't believe we weren't together anymore, then i realized and was really over and all i could do was cry because i didn't think i would ever have him back, luckily i got my way and we are still together.. if i were you i'd try to get in touch with him some how but depending on where he moved to.. u might not want to have a relationship with someone you'll never be able to see, or just write to, talk to online or on the phone because it's just not the same as a relationship where you can physically be with the person.. if you get in touch with him and get back together and can never see each other, chances are one of you will end up cheating on each other because your relationship won't be complete with hugs, kisses and all that good stuff!
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well your not going to get over ur first love, im still with mine .. but i think if i ever broke up with her .. i'd die .. but i mean you could try and call him? write to him? something in that category? try to make contact with him, and yes tell your bf that your with now about it, if he really thinks the way you do, then he will know how you feel.
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well you're in a tough place but i think you should approach your boyfriend maybe tell him all about your other boyfriend he will more than likely understand what you are going through and if he doesn't take it as well as you think and he starts acting funny just tell him its not the best time for you to have a boyfriend maybe later
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This is pretty easy for me. I have had your problem. You will always miss him because well yes he was your first love and you will always have feeling for him and no matter what you do nothing can change that bc i miss my ex to we also dated for a year and i loved him alot. You will love again, but only time will ever tell you when you will be able to open up your heart again bc like me you are probably scared to fall in love again and get your heart shattered am i right? Let your boyfriend know (not just randomly, but at a good time when it seems right) tell him that you still have feeling for your ex, because he was your first love but also tell him he doesn't have to worry because he is yours now and just see how he takes it and take it from there.
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Ok well I think your friend is right. You can`t ever truely get over your first love. well maybe when your old or something, lol. anyways, you should just try to tell him. it`s only fair to him that you tell him. just say to him something like this:
i like you & all, but i just thouht you should know i still kinda have feelings for 'the ex's name'. i`m sorry. i really didn`t wanna hurt you.. & i`m sorry if i did.. i wanna stay together, it`s just i thought you should know that.
well that`s something like what i would say anyways. so i hope that kinda helps.
-xo- Sammi
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