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i like this guy, hes 17, and he has a gf. i was hanging out with my friends yesterday and he was there, i new him from lik 3 years a go because i tired to get the hook up with him, but he ended up going out with my best friend, and that was totally kool wit me. and now 3 years lata i see him. and i didnt reconize him. but then i relized it was him and me and him were ahngin out. well him and his 2 friends had to leave, and he asked if i woudl walk him out to his car so i was lik yea. i did and we walked up the street a lil, and he asked for my number i gave it too him and he said that him and his friends made a bet that he couldnt kiss a girl tonight, so he asked for a kiss and i gave him a kiss, and we made out a lil, not people are saying im a slut because i made out with a guy that i liked but i wasnt goin out with him, and they said it was stupid of me because i new it was a bet, well i new it was a bet and i dont really mind bcuz it was a win win situation, i got a kiss and he won the bet i dont understand the big deal is. y would ppl call me a slut ad stuff just because i kissed him? wats the big deal?
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hey well if i were you i'd tell these girls exactly what you told us, tell them at least it was just a kiss with a guy i wasn't with and not sex.. because there are plenty of girls out there who have sex with guys they aren't dating or who have gf's, those are the sluts..
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♥ Honestly hun..i dont think its a big deal..you like him right..so you gotta get what you want..which is HIM!all those people who call you a slut are bitches who need to get the fuck out of your life..so what if you werent goin out with him..atleast you dont got around makin out with EVERY guy..but the advice im gonna give you is not to worry about them dont let that shit phase you..but when you get the guy..you wont even care about it..because then that'll mean that u kissing him was worth it..
xOxO--Janee`
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People used to tell me somehting like this awhile back. I got the people that called me a slut, and sat them down and drank budlights and talked it over. It turned out fo rthe better and stopped arguments we had about that.
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Its not a big deal to kiss someone if you're not dating them. People do that all the time. You're not a slut for that. Ignore what people say.
BUT... it is highly disrespectful that you kissed him knowing he had a girlfriend. That makes you look bad.
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The big deal is that you made out with a guy who has a girlfriend. You knew that before hand and still took the opportunity to get on him. While that does not make you slut, it does not reflect highly on you. It also reflects badly on him (even if he is proud that he got another girl to makeout with him despite being taken) because he indeed cheated on his girl, for a bet. I call bad form on you both.
It is not a win-win situation because you forgot about one person...his girlfriend. Surely, if you were on the otherside of the situation you would think it was a big deal and would probably be very hurt.
Slut is used as an umbrella term that covers a whole wide range of actions. I would bet that you don't want the reputation of being a girl who goes around kissing others boyfriends.
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