Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:17 pm
I have a boyfriend who is really awesome. He is a year younger than me. His name is *Michael.* My freind always flirts with him and he flirts back. What should i do?
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ilovepink101 answered Friday November 4 2005, 6:11 pm: well you ned to talk to this boy..and if that girl is supost to be your so called "Friend" then shes doing a terrible job at being a friend..firends dont flirt with each others boy friends..and thats jubt not right..so you need tot ell her something like to cool it off with her flirting with your boyfriend..and tell her that he is taken now so she needs to realize that!!and you hsouild talk to yuor boyfriend.... and make him realize that what your feelings for him are true..and that you want to be wiht him..and if he doesnt want the same out of you then hes not worth it!! but you and that so called firnd of yours, yall need to get yall prioreties straight!!
*hope i helped*
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hlynn_adorkable answered Friday November 4 2005, 2:22 pm: Well you can't really blame this on just your friend or just your bf.. talk to your friend about this and tell her to back off, she isn't a true friend if shes flirting with your bf.. also talk to your bf and tell him that you don't like the flirting thats going on between him and your friend.. if your friend wouldn't flirt with him, he wouldn't have the chance to flirt back, although if he loves you he wouldn't flirt back.. anyways thats just my ideas but if you want this to work out you need to talk to them both.. another thing you could do is when the three of you are together flirt with your bf 24/7 so she won't have a change to, hehe..
Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Thursday November 3 2005, 5:19 pm: let him know you dont like when he flirts it makes you feel uncomfurtable/hurt. if he says its dumb give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts then just let him know you were just trying to show him it hurts when he flirts with other girls!
louisvillegirl2005 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:36 am: you need to have a talk with your boyfriend and ask him if likes any one else besides you honestly and if he i says yes than you need to let him go and find some one elseask your friend if she likes your boyfriend and if she does let him have her and let her have him it aint worth it if he does let him go and move on i hope i helped you any
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:35 am: Talk to your friend first. Boys are dumb, expecially younger ones, and girls mature faster anyways. It should be friends over boyfriends, so talk to her about it. If she doesn't change her behavior then talk to him.
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Imperialistic answered Thursday November 3 2005, 2:47 am: Well, if you trust him/them, then you should probably forget about it. It may be just friendly banter.
But if it really bugs you, tell your boyfriend that it makes you feel uncomfortable and ask him to stop. Be advised that this might freak him out a bit especially if his intentions were harmless. [ Imperialistic's advice column | Ask Imperialistic A Question ]
Marko answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 11:36 pm: Hey,
Have a talk with your boyfriend and girlfriend if they are mutual to your feelings then neither of them will want to screw things up. Remember if anything happens between the two of them then forget about it and move on because they aint worth your tears.
Teza answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:10 pm: Sometimes flirting doesn't mean anything. Some people are natrual flirts. I am and I don't even know when I'm doing it. I don't think he likes her but if you are worried you need to talk to him and just ask him. After all, he is your boyfriend and you should feel comftrable to talk to him about anything. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
naimee answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:04 pm: Hey ♥
You should definitely tell your friend to back off of your boyfriend. It's pretty retarded that she's flirting with him + your boyfriend flirting with her is even more stupid!! You need to tell them both right away that it's pissing you off and that you want them to stop. If it continues to happen, dump his ass fast!! A guy is definitely not worth it, and simply don't be that girls friend anymore!!
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Californias_Hottest_xO answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:32 pm: Talk to him about it. Say you dont feel comfortable with him flirting with your friend.
xo_MyLoserGuitarist_<3 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:26 pm: Well, Hun. I think you should talk to him. I had that Problem before. Just ask him if he notices it or intentionally does it. he might not even know what he is doing. He probably doesn`t meen todo that.
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