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Hey...I need help agian! If you have never had a boyfriend, you are in 8th grade, 13, never even kissed a guy...Then do you get one! I like a guy but I wouldn't know how to act AT ALL (everyone says to talk, but what if you don't know what to talk about!?)I don't even know how to kiss! (that is embarrasing!) I want a boyfriend but no one has asked me out...I don't even think anyone has ever liked me! SOME of my friends say I'm really pretty..but when I go out with them they always get the guy(!), and I get jealous (but don't show it) I don't wanna tell her though...I guess that ended with 2 questions...PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!
Amy
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You don't have to have a boyfriend in 8th grade. And you don't just want any boy. I'm a boy myself and I've come across some very bad guys. usualy some guys just want a girlfriend so they can brag about it like a trophy. You don't have to have a boyfriend right now because you will love alot of men. Date alot of men. But the only one that realy matters is the one that says those life changing words "will you marry me?" , That is the only guy that counts.
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Okay hun, dont worry at all. You may feel like you are way behind, but you arent. 13 is really young and you have high school (and college perhaps) ahead of you. You just have to let things happen with this guy you like. You cant make a guy like you. You have to be yourself and maybe throw out some signals that you like him by flirting a little. But whatever you do dont try to change yourself, as cheesy as it may sound, but you need to just be yourself because if you change, then he wont really like you, he will like someone fake. About not knowing how to kiss...Dont Worry! I was the same way. When the time comes, it will all come to you, its an instinct. You just cant think too much, because it will overpower your instinct. If you try and plan it out, it will not be nearly as good. I can be sure guys have liked you before, trust me. And Im sure you are really pretty if your friends tell you that. Maybe guys are just intimidated of you. You need to be outgoing and smile a lot, or guys wont think you are open to them and that you dont wanna talk to them. Plus guys LOVE girls with confidence.
Sorry its so long, but I tried to help you with just about everything in your question. So I hope did help. Good luck and keep me posted!
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if you want to know what to talk about you can talk about anything!!! ask him how he is doing! always compliment a guy when into him! say one of my best lines "one of your best festures is your big butt"! lol it always work!!!!!!! just have fun with him!
your friend daddydiva
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You remind me of me, but you know what you don't need a topic to talk about. Even if you don't know if the guy likes you, talk to him. Time will only tell. Just bring up whatever you want to talk about or be like hey and you know he might bring up a conversation, but just don't show that your nervous. First talks are always kinda iffy but after a while you will feel very comfortable around them. Also don't go for a guy only for his looks once you get older you will find out some of the hottest guys have the worst attitudes and some of the shy maybe not so "coolest" guys are the sweetest and really know how to treat a girl. About the kissing, how do you know if you don't know how if you have never done it. Right before i kissed a boy for my first time i was like uh oh but it just comes natural and you can't really practice it.
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Everything that is going on in your life is so normal. If you're thirteen and never had a boyfriend, thats very normal. The thing is, a lot of girls your age go through tons of boyfriends, but they don't really mean that much, the serious boyfriend when you're older matters more. So, you're still very normal, it doesn't matter if you are called pretty by friends or not, you will get your kiss, and a boyfriend. Never been kissed is very common too, a lot of girls don't get kissed until maybe sixteen. A lot of girls save first kisses for someone more serious. So, if not ever been kissed is common, so is not knowing how to, just normal. Your friends probably go through a lot of different guys, and maybe that is because they are more social and louder when it comes to boys. You might be a little more silent when it comes to that. It doesn't make you ugly or anything, it makes you a normal girl. Just have fun, sometimes you'll wish you could go back to the time where guys just didn't exist with you and your friends. You have to just act like the girl you are in front of guys. You'll be more confident if you're comfortable in your own skin around guys. You'll find it a lot easier and you'll have a better chance of getting a guy that wants you for you.
-TheTeenGirl
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I am in like the same boat as you! Except I'm 15, a junior, never been kissed, etc. etc. So your still in 8th grade, but in high school your going to be approached by guys left and right! I have been asked out by guys but I dont go out with them just because I need a boyfriend, I'm waiting for the perfect guy to be my first boyfriend. So, dont "look" for a boyfriend..he'll come to you! Your only 13 and will have a lot of boyfriends so just be patient. For now, have fun && flirt like crazy=) You'll get a boyfriend I promise, and as for the jealousy thing...we all feel that way but just think about when your going to have that with someone and that it'll be there soon. Dont focus on hoping to meet someone because it'll feel like your waiting even longer. Just live life and one day, he'll come into your life. Hope I helped. =)
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Amy, don`t worry. Just hang out w/ a guy you like & talk to him like you would any guy.& ask him who he likes & if he asks you tell him. don`t be afraid to let a guy know you like him. & as far as kissing goes, don`t worry! a simple kiss is easy.. it`ll come easy.. & makeingout type kiss, well that`ll come to you eventually to.
NO WORRYS!
-xo- Sammi
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wow we are sooo sisters but ya, i did have a guy once and i tried to act totallllllyyyy normal, like my usualy self only a little more flirty hehehe and went with the flow and everything went fine and the only way a guy is going to know you like him is if you take a chance and tell him what have you got to lose? there are millions of boys waiting for you rite..RITE good luck :)
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