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Q: Ok well I asked a question before about this but theres something eles.Me and my friend like alot of the same guys but she always seems to win them over because she has big breasts.Well I have noticed that everytime I say I like someone she will just say yeah hes ok and then like the next day she will see the guy I like and say something like omg look its him I looooove him!! I dont know what I should do because I dont know whats wrong with me..Is it because Im jealous?? Or feel unattractive or something.I feel like i can never get a guy because she will steal him away ( by the way she doesnt do it too be mean she just does it without knowing shes doing it)
If those guys only like her because she has big breasts then they aren't your type. You want a guy who likes you for your personality and that looks past the outer skin and sees the real you. If he only likes somebody for their looks, that relationship is down the toilet. I'm a guy and I've seen some guys going out with the witches of the school, but they look good. A week later we find out she duped him hard and cruel. Solook for a guy who likes you for you.

Q: Hey...I need help agian! If you have never had a boyfriend, you are in 8th grade, 13, never even kissed a guy...Then do you get one! I like a guy but I wouldn't know how to act AT ALL (everyone says to talk, but what if you don't know what to talk about!?)I don't even know how to kiss! (that is embarrasing!) I want a boyfriend but no one has asked me out...I don't even think anyone has ever liked me! SOME of my friends say I'm really pretty..but when I go out with them they always get the guy(!), and I get jealous (but don't show it) I don't wanna tell her though...I guess that ended with 2 questions...PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!
Amy
You don't have to have a boyfriend in 8th grade. And you don't just want any boy. I'm a boy myself and I've come across some very bad guys. usualy some guys just want a girlfriend so they can brag about it like a trophy. You don't have to have a boyfriend right now because you will love alot of men. Date alot of men. But the only one that realy matters is the one that says those life changing words "will you marry me?" , That is the only guy that counts.

Q: Ok I have a presentation to make tomorrow (7 minutes long min.) and whenever I go up in front of the class.. i get soo nervous that my voice starts to shake! it is so embarrasing! and the weird thing is i really don't care about being in front of the class.. but for some reason my voice shakes? can anyone help me with my problem??
Don't worry about it. It's all good. Just relax when you're up there. nobody will laugh at you. and even if some do there will be alot more clapping than laughing, trust me. when you get up there imagine your idol is there supporting you, cheering you on. It's normal to feel nervous, but once you're done you will have made many proud, changed many's point of veiw, and maby changed someone's life.

Q: there is this guy that i like and he says he likes me to and we have been talking for about two months and we act like we are datin ans everyone thinks we are but were not. why hasent he asked me out ?
He is probably nervous to even speak to you. He might be scared you are to good for him.He culd have also had girl touble in the past and he doesn't want it to happen again.If a guy has too much girl trouble when he's young he feels like every girl will do that to him. He's scared. give him some time and let him get to know you. open up. let him feel comfortable around you.

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Josh1
Hi, I'm Josh Baldwin from Magnolia Arkansas, and I am one of those guys who just start atractig girls in jr. high. I am athletic and I just ended my football season for 7th grade. I have been tuned down by girls so many times I,m under their feet, so I sould know a thing or two about relationships. I have red hair, brown eyes, and I am getting bulky. Don't judge me by my appearence because I can be very romantic and compasionate.

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