Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:39 pm
there is this guy that i like and he says he likes me to and we have been talking for about two months and we act like we are datin ans everyone thinks we are but were not. why hasent he asked me out ?
im_there answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:49 pm: i've had the same problem before...and as it turned out the guy just wanted to be my friend. today he's my best friend ever. i'm not saying that he doesn't like you but guys are complicated, and if he likes you more than a friend then i don't know what that boys waiting for. [ im_there's advice column | Ask im_there A Question ]
shrink2be answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:45 pm: he probably hasnt asked you out because yall are acting like your going out with out any strings attaching you two. so, if/or when he was tired of you, he could just start hanging out with another girl without having to actually break up with you. [ shrink2be's advice column | Ask shrink2be A Question ]
Josh1 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:26 pm: He is probably nervous to even speak to you. He might be scared you are to good for him.He culd have also had girl touble in the past and he doesn't want it to happen again.If a guy has too much girl trouble when he's young he feels like every girl will do that to him. He's scared. give him some time and let him get to know you. open up. let him feel comfortable around you. [ Josh1's advice column | Ask Josh1 A Question ]
thinkpink03 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:16 pm: there are tons of reasons why he hasnt asked you out. the two that are probably whats up is either that he doesnt like you like that, or he just is too nervous. if youre really sure he likes you, then do him the favor and ask him out. he might be praying you are, you never know...guys are weird like that. thats basically what i would recommend. good luck
Shortcake22 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:07 pm: There could be plenty of reasons.
He could be the type of guy who just goes for a friends with benefits relationship.
He could be to shy to actually ask you. Its nerveracking for them.
He could want to make sure that you are right for each other before actually asking you. He might be the type thats into serious relationships.
He could be waiting for a special occasion or the perfect moment.
He could just wanna keep you around for if he doesnt find another girl.. (you can usually tell if its this)
Just bring it up and ask what he thinks they are. Ask him about being official or not. Who knows, he might already think you guys are dating, some guys are like that.
angel_sarah23 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:06 pm: maybe he doesnt want to ruin the perfect relationship of just more then friends. maybe he thinks that he dont want to like put his hole life to someone so quick maybe he needs more time to think things other.
maybe hes had other g/f's and he feels people act different when there over friends then going out, maybe hes been told he changes and he just doesnt want to hurt you. if u can try talk to him say we act like were going out so what is stopping us, if u really are meant to be together it will be ok and he will say what you want to here back. [ angel_sarah23's advice column | Ask angel_sarah23 A Question ]
MissJessicaPaige answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:52 pm: OH MY GOSH! same thing happend to my friend. my guess would be he's shy, if your popular, maybe he doesnt want to be the center of attetion, he's havin second thoughts because he likes someone else, or maybe he just doesnt want a girlfriend, just a "friends with benifits" type thing. [ MissJessicaPaige's advice column | Ask MissJessicaPaige A Question ]
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