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me and this guy like eachother and we meet at a camp this summer. but we live 2 far away. I am going 2 see him soon. and some people think that hes going 2 ask me out. but i dont know if i would want 2 because of the distance. like i would but the distance is a big thing.
what should i do?
Thanks
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well these days we have AIM e-mail. pictures online. phone. mail. fax.. anything you could imagin. so it might not be that big of a deal. but if you guys cant SEE eachother atleast 2 times in a 6 month period maybe it just isnt ment to work out.
what i would do is try it. i mean if he asks you out. and you do like him. say yes. and try. and if it doesnt work out, or to stressful. break things off and say you want to be friends. truth is if your not feeling the relitionship.. neither is he.
but if you do date. make sure you talk - almost ever night. on the phone. and talk online. and it will be great . good luck.
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i'm kind of dating a guy in the marines...he lives as far away as someone can get, like if he goes any farther, he would be getting closer in the opposite direction. so i am of the vbelief that if you both make the effort and stay true to each other it will work out fine. he calls once a week, and we talk online whenever he has the time (whcih isn't often). i'm not gonna say it's not hard, because it most certainly is, but i think once he gets out of the corps, i will be glad i waited. good luck with your relationship! :)
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if you really lyk someone the distance between ya'll shouldnt matter. my b/f and i have been together for 4 months and 2 and a hlaf weeks and i liv 218 miles away from him. yes, it does get hard but i really think you should give him a try. just to see how it goes. hope i could help bye now
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If you really like him follow your heart. Do what you think is right. If you think distance is a big thing then talk to him about it...maybe you guys can work something out. If you guys can't work something out then meet at camp again. That is my advice.
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well just see what happens
maybe hell come vist, if he does ask u out, and dont make it such a big deal, just let it be a summer fling, a relationshp that u have over the summer, then later it might make long term LOVES!! <3*<3
.:}i{:. h0PE i hElPEd!!
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You have to be open and honest. You have to tell him that it won't work. Honesty will be your best friend, sometimes it may hurt, but it will keep you from making bad decisions. Trust me.
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distant relationships almost never work... just tell him that you cant handle the distance... and well... i cant really tell you anything else... i myself have thought about long distance things but it just doesnt work....dont get caught up in emotions when you see him and just say yes because your caught up then later be hurt... its hard... trust me
-alex
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