Ok my cousin went out with this guy for about a year and i just found out that he hits her and all kinds of stuff but she never did anything about it...now their broke up and she's talking to another guy from the same school but her ex still hits on her and cusses her out at school while her new bf's not around...I want to speak up but she told me NO...should i or not?This is getting way out of hand and im the only one who knows!!Please help me out!!
rainbowNsunshine91 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 6:43 pm: Get your friend some help! She obviously cannot see that all this abuse can get worse over time! You don't want her to end up dead, do you? I know you don't so tell a parent, another friend or her new BF. No matter WHAT she says, you know what's right.
helpful_13 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 4:42 pm: I think you should tell because she is getting hurt. If I was you I would tell her mom or a police officer so that boy will get hopefully arrsted or something. You should really tell whoever it is that CAN help. [ helpful_13's advice column | Ask helpful_13 A Question ]
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:36 pm: Ok yes you should def. speak up..this can't go on! I think what you shoudl do is tell the school guidance counselor about it...tel her you promised you wouldn't tell so could you please say that an anonymous student saw him beating on her. That way he won't beat on you and you're cousin won't get mad at you! And even if your cousin finds out..she's gonna thatnk you in the long run! ♥ caitie [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
dumblonde answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:52 pm: be a good friend. get help. it might get more serious in the future. then if something does happen thats even worse, you'll regret not helping.
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