I am a shy teen girl in high school and I recently meet a guy and I felt an instant connection, but I'm not sure if he did. It seems like he likes me but I'm not sure. He has asked me about my interests and I've caught him looking my way in the corner of my eye more than a couple of times, it seems like he kind of does that to everyone else though. I just don't want to be shut down. Should I make a move and also how so?
sleepiesheep answered Friday November 11 2005, 12:28 am: well...i say make a move but it cant be too deep of a move. so maybe if you and a couple/group of friends are going to a movie or skating or doing something call him and ask him if he would like to go with you if not say you were just wondering and hang up, if he says yes you have yourself a date! hope this helped and remember every girl has one thing in common, Girl Power!
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beankitty answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 6:56 am: If you don't know what his favourite colour is yet, then no. In other words, slow down. Learn more about this guy. If you still want him after finding out what his fav. colour is, then yes you should make a move. Don't be afraid of being shut down. If you fail, then he wasn't right for you anyway. You don't really have anything to lose, only something to gain. Right? [ beankitty's advice column | Ask beankitty A Question ]
KiiSSxMYxTAN answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:04 pm: hey now, jumpin in makin a move already? get to kno this guy first. hang out &nd chat a little bit. after a while i think yew will start to notice if he is into yew er not. &nd if it turns owt that he is into yew then i guess get how yew two feel towards each other so its clear then start makin the moves. take it slow, dont rush then it becomes confussin. hope i helped hun! &nd good luck!
Advicelady6798 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 6:49 pm: Well if you have a friend that asks him if he likes you and you find out from your friend it wouldnt be the same like him doing it to you. It sounds like he likes you alot he is just shy to. I think he feels the same way as you. He is araid to ask you out b/c he is afraid that you might reject him so you should ask him out or have your friend see if he likes you. You could write him a note or call him or just ask him face to face. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
hco_babe answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 6:07 pm: get to know him a little better first. if you still feel the connection, then tell him how you feel. if he likes you, he'll tell you then, and most likely ask you out. otherwise, stick to being friends if he doesnt like you like that. don't get upset over it either. there's always someone else who would love to be with you. much love. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
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