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Hi. I'm beankitty. Don't be afraid to ask me a question. I won't bite or claw, unless you deserve it of course.
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okay well my friend really likes this kid but like everytime she does its like obsession. its like really creepy and weird. but anyway me and her arent allowed to hang out because she got me into a lot of trouble because she got me in trouble for her stealing but anyways she really likes this kid but this kid hates her. so me & him were hanging out and we both like eachother now but we dont know what to do because of her please help. (link)
Oh well. You like him, he likes you, so who cares? You can't hang out anyway, so take the guy. Don't miss out on both.


Today in Life Skills, my school counselor told us girls "all 13-year-old boys care about is looks." (it's not a co-ed class) She also went on to say that 13-year-old boys only like girls with big boobs and a big ass. She said that they are very shallow, but the best thing for us to do is wait for them to grow up.

Is this really true? Do boys only notice boobs and butts on a girl and nothing else? It doesn't make me feel too good knowing that, because I certainly don't have a big butt and big boobs, and I'd like to have a boyfriend.

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Yup. It's true.

So, wait until you're older, because you won't have a meaningful relationship at 13 anyway. A complete waste of time and dissatisfaction.


Hi..I'm getting married in August and I was wondering if anyone knows any dvd's that are great exercising videos..i will rate high! (link)
NOPE, sorry! But I wanted to give you a congratulations on your marriage! I wish you luck and pray that you do not file for a divorce 12 months later.


I am 14 years old and haven't gotten my period yet. I am pretty sure all of my firends have gotten it by now. I am also one of the oldest out of my firends (cuz i was born in 91 and everyone else born in 92 but whatever) I play 3 sports and i am wondering of something is wrong with me? My mom got it when she was 16 but my sister got it when she was 11. (link)
Congratulations on not having it... because once you get it you will wish something was wrong with you that you didn't have to have it. It's probably the most annoying shit ever.

Don't worry, dear. Playing sports will do that to you. If you weren't as active, you'd have gotten your period by now. The more active you are the longer it takes. So... you're fine.


im thinking about getting an ipod. i was just wondering, when you get it, i hear you have to get iTunes. ive had that before, and do you have to buy songs off of that. is there any way to download songs from limewire or other programs, or is it free when you have an ipd. thanks!

*i rate everyones answer* (link)
When you purchase an iPod, you'll get a disc to install iTunes as well, seeing as how you need iTunes to convert all your songs to put them on the iPod. Whether you have an iPod or not, all songs on iTunes are 99 cents. So you'll be paying a dollar for every song. This is lame and not recommended. Download limewire, you won't have to pay for anything, and download whatever songs you want for free.


Do you believe in God or not? Explain why. Don't say because that's the way you were raised, I'm talking about how you feel now.

Do you really believe that God is real just because a book was written saying there was one? Couldn't it be a fable?

Do you support evolution and the Big Bang Theory or not? Please explain as much as you can. I will give you all 5's! (link)
No, because if you are going to believe in God existing, then it's the same thing and you may as well just believe there's an enormously fat man on Mars controlling your every action and thought. Why believe in something you can't prove?


About every 3 minutes or so, my computer opens up the calculator from windows! i used it once the other day, but i didnt do anything that would give me a virus. i dont know whats going on. any ideas on what it is and how to get rid of it? ALL FIVES (link)
Wow. How scary is THAT! Reformat.


are there any good picture editing softwear or whatever you call it i can downlaod for free...im not that computer smart so it cant be something real advanced.

thanks 5's for anything (link)
IrfanView. Sexy little bug.


I always go on this chat room and i can't stop going. I want to block it for myself but I don't know how and I know I'll get mad when I want to go on it and I can't. What should I do to try and stop going on it? (link)
Put lots of tabasco sauce all over your fingers and hands. Keyword : lots. Lather that shit on. This way, when you try to go to a chat room, you'll feel very uncomfortable because your hands will feel disgusting. You'll mess your keyboard up and hopefully it won't function properly. Or, if it does still function, you won't want to touch it because it will be gross.


I want to download limewire because I've heard you can get free downloadable music from it.. but I don't know if it's safe, and I don't know if I'll get in trouble with the law or anything for using it. Does anyone have any experience with it or any advice whether to download it or to not? (link)
Download it. The program is not illegal itself, but downloading songs on there for free is illegal. But who cares? Why pay when you can get it for free? I don't know anyone who *doesn't* use limewire.


how do i make a bar graph on microsofot word

ps i have a macintosh

please help (link)
Microsofot word? Is that new?


How can you get someone deleted on myspace? This girl was harassing me, and then she got MY account deleted! I want to get her deleted so all is fair, how can I do it? Pleeeease help, i'll rate 5's! (link)
Oh noes! Now you have an opportunity to spend your life doing something other than staring at myspace. Congratulations! Savour it while you can. This is your chance to make yourself a better person.


I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex? (link)
www.ageofconsent.com


Ok i'm 13/f n i'm in 8th grade. i haven't met a new guy in a while, but today on the bus there's this cute guy my age and he's rlly cool and i really want to impress him, even if i find out i don't like him i still need sum new guy frends (i go to an all girls school)so tomorrow i want to lik impress him n stuff.....so i need some advice on lik how i shud act n how i shud do my hair n make-up (im 5 feet 0inches, brown hair, brown eyes) I rate high.

-Paris- (link)
Pretend you're bisexual.


What does "finally g1" mean?? (link)
Tell him to stop being retarded and speak like a normal human being. He's probably a cave man. GRAHGHARRR G1!


I am a shy teen girl in high school and I recently meet a guy and I felt an instant connection, but I'm not sure if he did. It seems like he likes me but I'm not sure. He has asked me about my interests and I've caught him looking my way in the corner of my eye more than a couple of times, it seems like he kind of does that to everyone else though. I just don't want to be shut down. Should I make a move and also how so? (link)
If you don't know what his favourite colour is yet, then no. In other words, slow down. Learn more about this guy. If you still want him after finding out what his fav. colour is, then yes you should make a move. Don't be afraid of being shut down. If you fail, then he wasn't right for you anyway. You don't really have anything to lose, only something to gain. Right?


Is it ok for christans to masterbate? I want to know befor I start. Thanks. (link)
Ask god.


i need some advice here... i'm kinda freaking out.

graphic, sorry.

anyways, so im on the ortho evra patch and i'v been on it for a while know and well last month i accedentally forgot to change it and went 2 days with an old one on and my period was like 5 days early and my period was like 10-11 days, hell i know, trust me. and well it was like done after about 6 (normal for me) but the yucki brown-end-of-the-period stuff went on forever. then finally it just stopped and i was like okay sweet. im on patch #2 for this month and i changed it on monday, and since like sunday night or monday morning i started getting that yucki brown stuff again and i dont know why and its really kind of scaring me. I had sex with my b/f on that friday, we dont use condoms because im on birth control and well.. to be honest i do NOT want to be effing pregnant. idk why i would be tho? you don't spot or bleed if your pregnant do you? please help.. i dont want to go to the doctor if its something stupid like my period wasnt done coming out or something haha. write back asap!! i rate high. (link)
This hasn't happened to me, but honestly, for something like this you shouldn't be sitting around asking us - you need to see your gynecologist and have a gynecological exam. Not just explain the problem.. but have the doctor look at that. And while you're there, you can have them take a preg test for you and that lovely pap smear is just oodles and oodles of fun.


well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's)) (link)
You can't. In other words, get over it.


I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :) (link)
Well what kind of stuff does he like? Music? Your best bet is probably a CD. Or if he's into video games then a gift card to like EB games or Best Buy. If those 2 things don't work, try a fish tank.




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