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how do i deal with this heart ache?


Question Posted Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:41 pm

well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's))

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AnGeLs_AdVicE_x3 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 3:44 pm:
well maybe you can like someone else and try to get him jealous and get your mind off of him...you can also try to hook someone up with this kaitlin girl...one of those things has to work...Hope I Helped! =)





Samantha Lynn

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happy-helper answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 1:15 pm:
Hey, if he likes this other girl, I guess you have to be happy for him. On the other hand, I suppose you could just stare at him, smile, wink or just wave across the room. G'luck, it isn't easy!
x Steph x
P.S If you want to talk more, puddycat11@hotmail.com is my email, feel free to add me and I can try and help some more if you want me to :)

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beankitty answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 6:50 am:
You can't. In other words, get over it.

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boyproblems answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:59 pm:
okay i guess be flirty come off strong but not stalker or pushy strong just flirty strong and also make it look like all your attention isnt focused on them meaning dont put yourself in a position where you would look like your obsessing over your ex or that you really dont like this girl kaitlin hope i helped love boyproblems

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:15 pm:
I think that you need to just accept the fact that he isn't interested in you anymore. I know that hurts, but truly, if he doesn't want to be with you, don't push it. And how do you expect to 'win him over' without talking to him? You just plan on ignoring him until he notices you, because you do have to communicate in order for someone to pay attention to you.

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MELiixMARiiE answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:39 pm:
Well there really is no way to make him like you again. He has to like you all on his own, and apprantly he likes this Kaitlin girl. =/ I know that's not what you wanna hear, sorry. But if you want to at least have a friendship with him and be close to him ( which might be good in the end cause if he ever gets his heart broken or w.e by her, he might realize how much you care about him and everythign and start liking you again ) then I know you said "dont say talk to him" but that's what you gotta do in order to be his friend and just always be there for him. If him and Kaitlin were ever to date and they broke up or anything you would always be there and he might realize that in the end. I hope I helped!





Love,
MELii

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hco_babe answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:13 pm:
wear something he will find sexy. (hollister or AF miniskirt) guys love it. a cute top. wear your hair down. do your makeup really pretty. he'll be like "damn why am i not with her?" every chance you can talk with him. FLIRT. like none other. look over your shoulder and smile real flirty. do this and pretty soon hopefully you'll have your man back, and that kaitlin chick will be a loner. = )

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sleepiesheep answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:02 pm:
well it depends what kind of school your in and if it has a dress code but you could try wearing a really nice pair of jeans and a t-shirt with a sweeter than do your hair up in a new style. im not quite sure have you tried asking him out again? but talking to him would help the matter thats what i did and hes my bf again! hope i helped.
**sleepiesheep**

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LadyGoodman answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:00 pm:
I know this is what you don't want to hear, but there is no way to MAKE anyone like you. You just have to wait until he gets through this phase. He will only truly like you when he feels like he does again, not because someone else made him. Sorry.

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