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I think I might like my ex boyfriends best friend. I don;t now what to do. I still like my ex but I think I may like his friend more. what should I do. If you have ever had a problem like this please tell me what you did. thanks.
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I have definitely been there. My ex's friend was hott and i was attracted to him but i was also liked my ex too. The thing i thought if me and my ex were meant to be we would still be together. And also if we did get back together the problems that we had when we broke up are still going to be there. I think that if you like the friend more you should get with him b/c you never know how long he is going to be there.
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I have never had that sort of problem but here is my advice: I think you should go tell him you like him. It will not hurt...only your ex's feelings a bit. Does your ex have a girlfriend already? Well if he does and you did not feel sad or mad or something like that then I bet her won't feel anything as well. But if he doesn't have a grlfriend, well you will have to make the 1st move because no mattter what you guys will get a boy/girl friend someday or another. Even if it is their best friend. Sure....it may hurt a little to them but after a while they will get used to it. But still sat friends with your ex, he may like you still a little too and would not want to always be left out. That is my advice.
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take a chance with the best friend!
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Well has your ex moved on and have a girlfriend/dated anyone? Cause if he has moved on, then you should too. If he doesn't care if you date his best friend, then I don't see why you shouldn't. But if he still has feelings for you, I might want to talk to him about it. Cause if you just go and date his best friend, that might make him mad. =/ I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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Ok...to tell you the truth i've been through this plenty of times and when me and my ex broke up i still had feelings for him but i went out with one of his close friends and they still stayed friends...no problems well when me and that guy broke up i still liked my ex and i started talking to some other guy and a few weeks later I found out that he was friends with my ex too but i still went out with him and they were like bestfriends and i didnt know it and they actually stopped talking and was about to fight over this and now we're broke up to and they still dont talk so i dont know it all depends on who these guys are and how close of friends they really are...But if you think about it and still like his friend more then find out if he likes you and go for it!!
Hope this helps,
Jess
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i went ahead and went out with my ex BF's bestie. lol sorry buddy, but sometimes life sucks. = )
p.s-you are single now! i mean, you should be able to date who you want!
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