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okay well i used to be best friends with this one girl for like ever. and then we stopped talking for a little bit because we were both really busy and she got all mad and said that i was mad at her and she could never trust me again. that was a few months ago and were still not friends. well i was wondering if i should write her (she blocked me and she lives in another state so i cant call her). because i am just wondering if shes okay and maybe we can patch this thing up. should i even bother?
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well since she blocked you, you should just make another sn (that would be easier then just sending her a letter) and just tell her you wanna talk.. i had this same problem. and my friend (we became really close again) made a new sn and was like. listen dont block me again i really want to talk to you. and so i listened and we figured things out.. and even though we dont live close , we are closer friends then ever.. i think you should try it. it wouldnt hurt. hope i helped <3
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were you mad at her? if so, apologize. if not, just explain what was going on.
i think it would be a good idea to patch things up with her, and see how she is doing.
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If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't bother with her. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone so flakey that they stop talking to you completely over something insignificant.
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sure, send her a letter and tell her you're not sure what happened, but you'r enot mad at her, and you hope you two can still be friends. good luck!
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well if you two were good friends i say go for it i mean its always good to have some friends even if they dont leave near you just write a little letter to her maybe y'all can forgive and hopefully forget
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roxyhollister101<3
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yes def. write her. tell her how you feel (what you think happened, whether or not you want to be friends still, etc.) just spill your heart out. if she doesnt write back, dont fret its just her loss. BOTTOM LINE: i would just def. try to fix things they can only get better if you guys were that close.
[♥] good luck X-0H
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Yes, you should "bother" because you don't want to lose touch with her. I remember when I got in a fight with my best friend... I lived in Texas (still do) and she lived in Arizona (still does) and now, I don't know her phone number or anything because I didn't talk to her for a long long time! You have to talk to her about in a letter... telling her that you had a lot of school work and you were so busy that you didn't have time to do anything fun or anything you wanted to do. Just explain to her what was going on and that you didn't mean for anything like this to happen. Also, tell her that it wasn't ALL your fault... I'm sure SHE was busy too. O.K?
You can email me if you wanna talk or need any advice! My email address is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K? I'm always availible. You can also drop a question/comment in my inbox!!!
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♥ Kayla
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If you guys were really good friends, then yeah, you should take the time to write or email her. If the friendship doesn't mean anything to you (which I think it does since you took the time to ask this question) then don't worry about it. Give her a chance to cool off, then write or email her. Good luck!
♥ Melissa
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Yes you should write her.If she moved far away then she still might want to hear from you.I've been in the same situation as you.Trust me.If she really is a good friend then she will drop the grudge.If not then I say drop her.
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