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he's breaking my heart :-(
I love my boyfriend so so so much but he's kinda insensitive and he's always busy or wont give me a reason why he doesn't want to meet up or anything. He talks more to my friend (who's in all his classes) and his ex girlfriend (she doesn't live near but he texts her all the time.) I don't want to break up with him even though I know he doesn't love me but I can't keep on crying over him every night..what should I do?
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Just have a word with him, and if he wont tell you what he is doin you should break up because when ure in relationship you should be honest with each other and if he don't love you anymore why are you still going out? Hope this will be a bit elpful for you!!!!!
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It might be tough but you need to try and talk to him. To tell you the truth it does't even seem like you two would be going out the way he acts twords you. But you should be happy with your life, you shouldn't have to cry over him every night. The right thing May be to break up with him. Good luck! I hope I helped you out.
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Just tell him that he's caused you too many tears and it's over. If you know he doesn't love you, why date him?
Don't fall for someone who won't be there to catch you.
~Laura~
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You know how fire is hot, and if you stick your hand in it you get burned and it hurts. Well here's an idea, if it doesnt feel good dont do it, dump his dumbass already.
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well... if you cri about him every nite i think you should say you have time to talk to your x gf and my friend but not me?
HOPE I HELPED!!
~Michelle
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You feel that he doesn't love you, he ignores you, and makes you feel like crap?
And yet you are convinced you love him?
Let's think about this for a minute...
Love is a two-way street, and you're not getting anything in return - that's not love.
As hard as it may seem, it is time to move on.
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If he is so distant and you barely talk, and he appears to never want to see you, and he's insensitive, perhaps you should break up with him. You might love him heaps, but you don't deserve to go throug all that, and you shouldnt cry every night over him, because that means your not happy with your relationship. Talk to him first though, tell him how you feel and what you've seen and thought, and give him a chance before you break up with him. Hope i helped.
Good Luck :-)
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Well i think you should talk to him. I had the same problem with my ex boyfriend and i really couldn't break up with him because i loved him so much! but he loved this other girl and not me so we took a break and i sorted out what i wanted from hom and he did the same about me. Well i also talked to him about him wanting more time with his friends then with me and we worked things out.... but in your case if you both do talk then you get into a fight then you think you should break up with him DO IT and don't go back!
-Katie-
....if you need anything else then just ask me!
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OMG i have the same thing happening to me!!!
You know what i do... i just ignore the fact that he doesnt want to be with me and i dont talk to him hardly n e more. But i think you need to talk to him or do something with him just to show how much you love him. Thats what im doing this weekend. All my boyfriend says is that hes going with his buddies and has to do homework. All he ever did b4 was invite me places i didnt want to go to but i went n e ways. And took me ridingn on the quads and shit like that. I did it with him just to show him how much i loved him and wanted to be with him. (im not talkin about sex in that sentence) lol My boyfriend is breaking my heart too. He keeps saying how hes going to dump me just because i dont talk to his friends. And he never talk to mine so why in the world should i talk to his. Which i do to some of them. Anyways.. not to keep rambling on and on but i think you need to talk to him about your relationship and tell him how you really feel. Speak your ming girl!!! dont let him put you down. No girl in their right mind diserves to be put down by a guy.
Christine
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I know you dont want to but maybe you need to break up with him because i dont knwo but if he is your first love then its always going to be hard or any guy you love.But if you now he doesnt feel the same then your wasting your time and having your feeling played with and thats not fair to you.Especially when there's pry like a million other guys who would treat you how you deserved to be treated.Hope i helped.
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DUMP HIM NOW! THERE ARE OTHER GUYS THAT WILL TREAT YOU BETTER THAN HIM. THEN WATCH AS HE COMES CRAWLING BACK TO YOU! BELEIVE ME WORKS EVERY TIME. IF YOU DONT DO IT HE WILL SO ACT FAST.(PS:GUYS HATE TO BE DUMPED SO HE WILL COME BACK AND ASK YOU OUT AGAIN.SO BE READY!!! HAVE FUN!!!!!
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Love is supposed to hurt.
He's not breaking up either because he doesnt want to hurt you[meaning he still cares for you at the least],or because he doesnt want to deal with all the emotional problem you will go through.
But how can you be sure he doesnt love you anymore?
I've had relationships with guys at which we both loved each other very much, but we just werent comfortable gettin together. I know this might just sound confusing, but think about this:when I was little I never liked to take a nap, but once I did, I didnt want to get up. It might sound funny but sometimes that's just the way love is. Maybe he just feels awkward.[perhaps your relationship was too sudden and too fast?] Or maybe he still have a hard time getting over his ex although he still loves you too. Or, like myself, he prefers a casual, distant love relationship?
All I can tell you is, you will never know what he truly feels about you unless you go up and ask him.
Yes, it might feel awkward and strange.
But ask him, not accusingly, but just ask why he acts the way he does.
And if he doesnt love you...I know it will be hard getting over him, but someday you will.
This is just all part of life...
I sincerely hope my advice helps.
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