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errrrrr. ok my mom dont trust me i did something with a guy she found out end of story. we were going out at the time now we arent cuz i was grounded cuz of the other thing and cudnt see him much but we still good friends and he invited me over last weekend i asked mom said no i got wicked mad and now i he asked for this weekend if him n his dad could drive over pick me up i cud go to his house. i needa ask but im afraid cuz 1) she wont giv in wen she says no 2) i needa prove to him i can hang out so we can go out again 3) wen she says no i get so mad. like she doesnt undertsnad me. (no1 does. he does alot..he makes me happy too and i am not the happiest person) the anger builds up inside me till i wanan explode. i wanan show her she can trust me. she just wont lemme. she prob wont let me go and i need to ask soon and errrrr anyway please help if u can idk what to do or what to say thx lata
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But what did you do? I am the same as you if my mom n dad say no i get so angry but you have just got to wait.... You have to show them that guy is nice and everything prove your mom wrong..
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I think that you should not have gotten caught in the first place :) but that's beside the point. If you need toa ask soon than just sit her down and have a peaceful conversation with her stating the facts and tell her you've learned your lesson and you'll never do it again. Butter her up(not litterally; suck up) and give compliments and help out around the house before this conversation. Don't flip out on her and keep her calm, don't ask right away, just ask her when she's in a good mood or something. Hope that help! :)
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first of dont go to his house with out asking your mom, that will really give her more reasons not to trust you. tell this guy that something has come up and you cant do it. may-be help your mom out with household chores or bring youre grade up. then may-be she can trust that you wont do anything bad and let you see him again.
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Maybe go out with him and no have sex, then you might win her trust back, ask her if you can go see a movie with him, then she'll say be back by 11, or what ever, just be back by then then you will win her trust back, DONT EXPLODE, everyone take cover, just kidding, just tell her she can trust you and there's nothing she can worry about
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Well, I think you need to try and calm down. You arn't going to get anywhere by getting mad all the time. Maybe if she says no this time, you can ask her why, and then maybe you and your mum can come to some kind of agreement, where you submit to her for a period of so long to show you can be trusted.
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Do what I did. Write a letter to your mom asking her if you can go and say pretty much what you said in the question. If that doesn't work and she says no then you could start to gain her trust by doing other things..
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