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Gender: Female
Location: Berkley
Occupation: 8th grade at Berkley Middle School
Age: 13
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Member Since: September 29, 2004
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hey I need help. I'm 13 and my friend likes this guy I like and we were best buds now I hate her. She thinks she should be the only one to have a boyfriend and she thinks i'm to shy to talk to him. HELP!!! ps i'm a girl LOL (link)
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boys shouldnt become a friend, and if in her eyes boys do.. then she isnt a good friend. its most likely that you arent going to marry this boy so try not to get so hung up on him talk to her and maybe even tell him that you like him, you never know he could like you instead of your friend. hope i helped =)
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?! (link)
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dont shave it. try nair for upper lip. my friend used it and it worked good and it didnt leave any marks on her skin. =)
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Hi, I'm a girl, freshman, and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend, who is 15, for about a month and three weeks. It was perfect at first and just went down. I don't know what happened. We went to the movies and had a great time, but it got worse and he stopped talking to me. I wondered what was wrong. My friends told me that he was a crack head and shouldn't go out with him, but I liked him so I didn't listen. We had tons of fun. I got tons of pictures with me and him together. I also have his sweater at home. But recently he has had a flirting problem and flirted with every girl in front of me. I got mad and sad and ended up getting my friends to talk to him for me. My friends said he was going to break up with me. I was so sad. Then they said he wanted to dump me because I'm too immature. My friend said he was cheating on me, but I wouldn't believe it. He also made me cry by joking around with me saying he would break up with me a few times and he told like a lot of people he made me cry at school.
Today my life ended and he dumped me. I ended up crying my heart out. After school I talked to him and asked why. He said I acted like a baby. I was sad. Then this girl came up and asked if he was coming to her house. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it. The next thing I knew they were walking around holding hands like lovers. I yelled FU at them, but I don't think they heard it. Then I was so pissed off. My bus came. I got on it. I was so mad and started yelling FU and flipping off everyone out of the bus window and started crying to death; thinking about that girl and the good times we had together. Then I saw him walking with the girl far away. I flipped them off, but they didn't see. After that I cried so much on the bus for about an hour and I seriously almost threw-up.
This is the worst day of my life. I can't stop thinking about him because I still love him so much. He was so nice and sweet. I don't think I will ever get over him. Can someone please just give advice how I can get over him because I don't think I ever will and just thinking about him makes me cry and feel like I'm about to get sick even more...
Thanks so much for the help....
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wow.. i fee so bad for you. its tough to get over someone that you really liked. last year i went through the same thing. i cried every night, though and i wasnt happy anymore. it was hard at first and there is nothing oyu can really do. i just stood by my friends and flirted a lot. i finally realized that he wasnt good enough for me and it was time to move on. i really thought i was in love with this kid but now i realize that the person i love has always been close to me. you never know how to get better, i could tell you to eat your emotions but thats not always the best thing. flirt and have fun do stuff like hang out wtih people to get over him.. hope i helped
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ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over two years now, and i always have trouble thinking of things to get him for his birthday/x-mas. his birthday is new years eve, so i need two things to get him. he's not the typical guy, like sweaters and cologne are not the type of things that he would like. i got him a wallet for graduation, picture frame last year, so none of that would work, and he already has a really nice watch. any, ANY ideas would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks a lot...i'll rate high!! (link)
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get him a picture of you and him when you frist started going out and maybe write him a note. you could get him a card and in it, it says One Free Night Alone. you could even take him out to dinner
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I feel like such an idiot asking this, but how do you make out? I need help!! I'll rate you no matter what. PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
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okay, i had this same problem. just do what he does and like i know it sounds silly but think about what you would want a person to do with their tongue in your mouth
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well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help (link)
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if you dont like him, dont force yourself to go out wtih him, tell him that you could be friends or something. you could even just hang-out at the mall with friends to see if you really like him, yet your friends will be there that way he wont try to do stuff with you, you could even explain to him that you like someone else (if you do) but dont lie to him and make up excuses not to see him cause that will make you seem racist even though you arent..
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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean (link)
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1. i thiink making out means for a long time and with tongue. and i think kissing is like a peck.
2. if you are bi you like both men and women like you can have a relationship with both sexs, instead of just likeing one sex.
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ok i know this is stupid.But i have a boyfriend and im scared to tell my parents. They wont get mad at me or anything for having a boyfriend the thing is i just dont know how to tell them. How should i tell them?? (link)
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yeah, it would make you feel less guilty around your boyfriend. one day just randomly say to your mom,(its always easier to tell your mom than your dad) "hey can i go out tonight, i have a date?" even if you have been going out with this kid for a while, act like its a first date it will be easier to get it out. and if she says no then you could always ask him to come over one day with a group of friends to make it less obvious to your parents
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hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do? (link)
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agree with them, if they say something be like yeah i did that, it will make them stop talking when they see it doesnt bother you, if you arent comfortable doing that ignore them. people will get tired of it after a while. some one in my school told everyone i was going to give this kid head even though i never said that, and when i ignored the rumors people forgot all about it and moved on
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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say? (link)
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just tell him how you really feel, explain that you've had mixed emotions and you got confussed. he might not be ready to go back out with you again, but hopefully you two will have a better friendship, that could turn into another relationship. explain to him that you relaly care about him and you want to be with him again.
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ok my friend emily just told me that she thinks my crush that i have neva told anyone about might like me......she says that he treats me different than any otha gurl
like this one time that i didnt think was a big deal but he gave me gum wen i asked and no one else...oh and he let me copy 2 questions off his hw but wen my friend askd he said yea right n walkd away....
i dont kno wat to do ...do i ask him ..but if he says he dont like me people are gonna laugh at me......or he might lie and say he doesnt but really does..idk plzzz plz help me.....should i ask him or not (link)
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ok first of i think i know who this person is. and i know who this crush is obviosly. and he does. i really dont think you should ask him. you should ask someone else to ask him. but not emily cause he wont tell emily and i hope you know why.
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ok this questions are all about my birthday party they ARE seperate questions but they relate to my up coming birthday.
I think this year im going to just take a few people out to a place to eat or invite a bunch of people and tell them to bring like 20 - 30 dollers. ( its my 15th birthday btw )
1. what are some good places to go to eat ex: applebees. and that doesnt cost like 100 dollers by the time ur done eatin! but isnt like a fast food place! likk mcdonalds.
2. how many people should i invite
3. should i just go out to eat and then home and have cake or what?
thanks! and tell me if you think this is a good idea!! (link)
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1. chilis its the best.
2. 4 or more, but not to many
3. go out to eat and bring a cake with you are just get what ever they give you for your birthday day.
i think its a good idea
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errrrrr. ok my mom dont trust me i did something with a guy she found out end of story. we were going out at the time now we arent cuz i was grounded cuz of the other thing and cudnt see him much but we still good friends and he invited me over last weekend i asked mom said no i got wicked mad and now i he asked for this weekend if him n his dad could drive over pick me up i cud go to his house. i needa ask but im afraid cuz 1) she wont giv in wen she says no 2) i needa prove to him i can hang out so we can go out again 3) wen she says no i get so mad. like she doesnt undertsnad me. (no1 does. he does alot..he makes me happy too and i am not the happiest person) the anger builds up inside me till i wanan explode. i wanan show her she can trust me. she just wont lemme. she prob wont let me go and i need to ask soon and errrrr anyway please help if u can idk what to do or what to say thx lata (link)
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first of dont go to his house with out asking your mom, that will really give her more reasons not to trust you. tell this guy that something has come up and you cant do it. may-be help your mom out with household chores or bring youre grade up. then may-be she can trust that you wont do anything bad and let you see him again.
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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me? (link)
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it called parania. i feel the same way at the being of the school year and i am not a shy person. its just because i dont feel comfortable around these people yet. there is nothing wrong with you.
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Hey yawl i have a question,ok here it goes.im in the popular group (not to be conceited)but my friends are too and well they kindof get on my nerves sometimes.they brag alot,and they think they are all that and that they are the best things in the world.and they r really bossy.oh yeah we are all girls.and they are always always annoying me.should i tell them how i feel?or let them keep on? thanx Haley (link)
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tell them how you feel. i know how you feel its the same way with my friends. all they talk about is how pretty they are. if you arent comfortable telling all your friends how you feel you could tell your closet friend out of all of them. she could maybe stop or tell them to stop. what i hate that my friends do is they tell each other they are all pretty, but then they go to one of us and she they arent. just make sure you dont do that because that is rude.
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Okay I have this friend and she has been my friend for about a year. Anyway she is like always bugging me she never shuts up and she always bugs me and my boyfriend. She is always trying to get us to do things, and she makes us on the sims 2 and made me get pregnant on the game and him have an affair with the maid. I mean she is a really good friend but she is always like butting in to our relationship and it gets on me and my boyfriends nerves. I just wish that she could but out of me and my boyfriends relationship. My boyfriend thinks that she likes to try to make us do stuff because she can't get a boyfriend.
Please Help Me
(*)Haleigh Ann(*) (link)
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she might be jealous of you. i mean now that you have a boyfriend do you spend as much time with her as you used to? she could be jealous of your boyfriend (not in that way) but because you spend more time with him than with her. you should even try telling her that you dont like what she does and it makes you feel uncomfortable.
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i want to pierce my cartilage by myself. how should i do it? is this a good idea? n if not how much would it cost at a professional place? thankz (link)
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i did it to one of my friends and by the way she screamed im guessing it hurt. i got mine done a professional place and it only costed around $25. if you want to pierce it i would ask a friend to do it for you.
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Do u use an eyelash curler on your bottom eyelashes ? I dont think u do but my friend says ur supposed to. (link)
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you can if you want to. i do if im going out to a party or something fancey, but if you want to you canjust do the top.
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ok well its only the third week of school ive missed 7 days so far and we can only miss 9 in a semester or quarter something like that but im sick so i cant help it. anyways i have FS in ALL my classes! jus because im missin 2 things its crazy. im in highschool and its really hard for me. english class is the hardest becuz i can never think of anything to write on essays or anything. and math is hard because i dont understand divison everything else it ok. my mom said if i keep my grades up i get a cell ( im in 10th ). she knows how much i want a cell so she uses that to make me get good grades. lately ive been really stressed because my ex boyfriend is always emailing me saying i have no life and im a bitch. then my bestfriend keeps sayin that im going to fail because ive missed so many days and ect. and all she does it put her problems on me and make them my problems. everyones just making it worst for me and making me worry. what do i do? how do i keep my grades up? thanks. (link)
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first of all calm down. your ex-boyfriend forget about him, ignore him. your friends tell them that they are putting pressure on you and if they're good friends they'll understand. you could ask your teacher for extra help or get a tutor. in english write essays on what you know like, your role model, something thats happened in the past. in math if you dont understand division, make a couple math problems for you to practice with.
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