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rumours
hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do?
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pretend like you don't care. if that doesn't work.. take boxing and then punch them all in the face.
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Do you have any idea why they are spreading these rumours? Have you been with a guy lately who someone else might have fancied? I had this problem at my school and it was started by a popular girl who ended up being jealous of me because I had kissed a guy she liked (but I didn't know that) and that I had a good home life. You need to find out who is spreading and ask some of your friends to help you and stick up for you. Whoever is doing this is doing it because they are very insecure and doing this because its making them feel better.
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you need to gain some confidence.. who cares what people think bc those you mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind...
I went to 3 diff hs moved nine time and have been backstabbed by my very BEST friends b4..
life goes on, c'est la vie.
learn to keep you buss. private, and only trust the trusted... :)
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You should find out who is starting them and nicely ask them why they did it. It sounds like your a nice person. You should express your feelings on this.
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agree with them, if they say something be like yeah i did that, it will make them stop talking when they see it doesnt bother you, if you arent comfortable doing that ignore them. people will get tired of it after a while. some one in my school told everyone i was going to give this kid head even though i never said that, and when i ignored the rumors people forgot all about it and moved on
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yea.. that's high school babe. some schools are worse than others. mine would be one of the worst.. as with yours. you gotta toughen up. if people talk behind your back, or say something to you. be like "well you know what.. maybe u should ask me before you assume.." or "thanks for making me the center of your world"... something that'll make them mad. just defend yourself.. just don't get in trouble or anything.. good luck!
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If you haven't already you should tell a guidence counseler or something to deal with it. Or tell your parents or an adult that you can trust to help you. But i highly suggest you tell a guidence counsler to help and tell them to stop and also so you can get your emotions out.
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Hey Laura. I'm sorry..I know how mean people can be and how they start rumors for whatever reason they do it. Eventually the will go away so just ignore them. If you hear people talking about it you could just act like it doesn't bother you (even though it does I know) and be like yeah so who did you hear that one from and make like it isn't that big of a deal. People just start rumors to get attention themselves and to get amusement off of the people they're about, if you act like it doesn't bother you then they won't be amused anymore and it should stop. If people ask you just tell them the truth about the rumors, don't lie though. Hope I helped. <3 Ryah
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Next time you hear someone talking about you in school be like "So who did you hear that one from." They will get kind of embarrassed and probably won't tell you. But it will start to let people know that you know what they say and you are going to put a stop to it. Try and blow them off. Or just try to find who started the rumors and be like "What gave you those ideas they aren't true." I hop I helped! Good luck!
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even though it hurts which it probably does let it be don't go starting fights with anyone cause that will only make manners worst and sooner or later everything will blow over and everyone will forget about all the stuff that has happened and don't listen to people they're probably jealous and have problems at home where they live well i hope everything turns out ok and hope i helped :)
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either tell them the truth or be like yup okay w/e u say *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi
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love you laura!!
Ayman
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