Question Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 5:00 pm
Hey yawl i have a question,ok here it goes.im in the popular group (not to be conceited)but my friends are too and well they kindof get on my nerves sometimes.they brag alot,and they think they are all that and that they are the best things in the world.and they r really bossy.oh yeah we are all girls.and they are always always annoying me.should i tell them how i feel?or let them keep on? thanx Haley
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xOCarrie answered Thursday September 30 2004, 6:09 pm: Well first off, the word "popularity" is conceited. I`m not trying to be rude but it is. You girls are too mature for all of this and you need to stop labeling yourseves into a group that may think your better than everyone because your "popular". And if your friends are really bugging you try making new friends, and inviting the ones you may not normally pay attension to into your group of "popularity". Like I said i`m not trying to be mean, im sure your a beautiful sweet girl but you need to look past being the "best" or the "most liked" and look around at all the other people you can make friends with that you might not see as "popular". Good luck.
mysticpixie05 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 6:06 pm: I would tell them how it is. Tell them how you feel. Though they might get p*ss*d off and act even more like conceited b*tch*s but atleast they will know how they act. And if they are not willing to accpet it from a person they consider a friend, then they are really not worth your time! Good Luck! Hope you didnt get offended by this.
PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 5:47 pm: well usually with tha "popular group" if some1 tries and says how they feel, tha other girls will get pissed off and be even more rude..atleast thats how it is at my schooL...s0 if i were u, id just let them keep being who they are..annoying bossy stuck up, etcetc...u cant realli complain cause thats juss who they are, hence the name, "the popular group" and if ur raelli unhappy and u know u cant change them, then dont be that girl who hasto be friends with only the popular girls cause thats just stupid...if ur realli unhappy get new friends.. i know thats hard but do w/e u can to make u happy.. [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
vickidee123 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 5:40 pm: tell them how you feel. i know how you feel its the same way with my friends. all they talk about is how pretty they are. if you arent comfortable telling all your friends how you feel you could tell your closet friend out of all of them. she could maybe stop or tell them to stop. what i hate that my friends do is they tell each other they are all pretty, but then they go to one of us and she they arent. just make sure you dont do that because that is rude. [ vickidee123's advice column | Ask vickidee123 A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Thursday September 30 2004, 5:21 pm: Well, I wouldn't just sit there and let it bother me. You should tell them, and try not to be bitchy about it (although you probably wouln't) let them know how you feel, and ask them to maybe just calm down about certain things. Well, hope I helped!
superstar10 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 5:19 pm: well if u tell them how u feel you could lose them. try to act they way u want them to act and they may follow. that or u could point little things out to them that annoy u every so often. but dont make a big deal over it. good luck,...let me know how things work out. [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
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