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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?
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there's nothing wrong with you. you just need a little more self confidence.
look at what other people are doing around you. are they just getting up to sharpen their pencils, or are they raising their hand?? sometimes you can follow their lead, and sometimes, just do what YOU feel comfortable with. best of luck!! send me something if you need to talk; i'm here for you. K
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Sometimes i feel like that too, as far as i know its normal,like all the attention is on u right? well i get over it pretty quick now cuz i boost up my confidence by reminding myself about the comments other people tell me and stuff. i hope i helped in some way or another!
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hey,u probably just "think" something is worng w/u, like u will trip and fall or sumthing, but really and truly that won't happen. U shouldnt be embarrased! Just b4 u get 2 sharpen ur pencil, ask ur teacher and u wont get into trouble. Hope I have helped.
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u should just do what you want .. ppls opinions shouldent matter to you .. be yourself for more help im me at bAyB x mAu 143
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there is soooooo nothing rong with you....so wat if your a lil..self conscious i think is the word... i used to be like that wen i was lil..i wouldnt get up or do ANYTHING at all coz i dint wanna mess up...the feelin will eventually wear off tho... or youll just get over it...like for me i did the most stoopedest things i could think of and my frends were there with me and we just laffed it off...sooo my advice is...dunt care and laff things off if you DID do summin stoopid..its not like anyones gonna remember by the next week ya noe?
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Your seem to be extremly paraniod, maybe you should see a shrink or something.
BUT THEN EVERYONE WILL LAUGH AT YOU FOR BEING CRAZY.
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theres nothing wrong with you. your just worried about what people think about you, its not bad, a lot of people are like that. i dont think quite as many people have it as bad as you, but i know how you feel. you feel like your doing something wrong, and everyone else is doing it right, and theyll talk about you for it. but to answer your question, theres nothing wrong with you :)
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Nothing's wrong with you. I used to be like that for a while, and sometimes I still am. I guess it's just the fear of being rejected or hated. Even for small things like getting ketchup or sharpening your pencil. People can think lots of stuff is weird, but that's their loss. But anyway, next time you need to sharpen your pencil...go do it. You'll feel a lot better. Then work your way up to doing the bigger things, and eventually you'll be able to do stuff without feeling weird or insecure. Just take it gradually.
Good luck,
Mikaela.
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im like that sometimes haha like in english, we dont have to ask to go to the bathroom, you just get up and go and im so afraid to go because im freaking out thinking the teachers gonna yell HEY! WHERE ARE YOU GOING! SIT DOWN!
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there is ntohing wrong with you. It just seems that your self esteem is low toward these situations. But everyone does these things everyday so you should just get up and be confident about doing whatever it is that you need to do and act like it doesnt bother you that you need to do it.
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ALOTAAAA PPL ARE LIKE THAT!!! theres absolutly nuthing wrong with u. u just have REALLY low self confidence thats ALL...u cant do that nemore though, u realy cant..YOU have to help YOURSELF by changing..nobody else can change to make ur self confidence higher,u know? whut u gotta do is, when u wanna sharpen ur pencil, force urself to go and sharpen ur pencil..there is nothing more than that to do. when u want ketchup, force urself to go and get the ketchup. i know for a fact that i have like sooooo much more respect for some1 who doesnt care whut ppl think about them cause they do whut they want no matter whut ppl may think or so. im sure u know all this cause its obvious, but the only way u can change is if YOU change. God wont help u unless u help yourself. FORCE urself to raise ur hand and ask a question in class, etc..its the only way..
love kristin
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OMG I have the same problem!! It's sooo bad I'm scared to git up and git a tissue!! I think we all just need to believe in ourselves and have more confidence and not give a F*ck what other people think :) Hope I hELpEd~!
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it called parania. i feel the same way at the being of the school year and i am not a shy person. its just because i dont feel comfortable around these people yet. there is nothing wrong with you.
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I know exactly how you feel. It's weird isn't it? I felt like that for a while like when I'd get up to get ketchup for my fries I'd feel as if people were talking about me and pointing and laughing for some reason. I'm not sure exactly what's wrong but I got over it. I'm sure it has to do with your confidence level. It's probably normal in teens because alot of my friends went through that too. Hope everything works out for you and I hope this helped.
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It sounds like you are being a little insecure about yourself. And you shouldn't, people do stuff like that everyday. You are not an odd ball. Just act like you don't care when you get up to do whatever, everyone has an embarresing moment ;) if you have one, you are not the first.
xo0x adriana
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well i know this mite be kinda hard but dont worry about it. i mean when some of your friends get up to sharpen thier pencils or get ketchup, do people laugh at them? probably not. and if you do get laughed at for whatever the strange reason is, just laugh too. its hard not to like someone who can laugh at themself! dont stress about it, the world isnt out to get you!
hOpE tHis HeLps,
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I wouldn't exactly say that there was something wrong with you. I think that you are a little shy and self consious(sp?) but that doesnt mean that you aren't a great person just try to over come your fear.
Hope I Helped
**Charmed-Cherry21**
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