Uhm, I'm 13 and from a small ass town in the center of New Jersey. Despite my young age, I've gone thru a lot of shit in my life and am good at giving advice. I'm always willing to listen and help you with any problems...so drop me a question sometime.
E-mail: torninsidexxx@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: New fucking Jersey
Occupation: Student/Musician
Age: 13
AIM: torn inside xxx
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Member Since: September 29, 2004
Answers: 2
Last Update: October 9, 2004
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I have this friend, who I know likes me.. but I have a boyfriend who I love.. but I dont want to hurt my friend.. My friend tells me he loves me all the time and he calls me baby.. my boyfriend doesnt say anything about it but I know it pisses him off. Now I ask you this, what do I do about my friend? I dont want to hurt him though because hes been there for me, but I just dont feel the same for him as he feels for me..
Signed,
FM (link)
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Well, I don't really know what to say, but I'll try my hardest.
You love this boyfriend a lot, and your friend could very well jeopardize your relationship with him. But, on the other hand, losing a friendship would completely suck. But, I'd say talk to your friend about it. Make him understand you're good friends and that's it, because you love your boyfriend too much. Don't make your friend feel as if he never has a chance, but don't lead him on. Make sure he gets the point though, that he can't cross the line of friendship and sexual relations.
I hope that helped you at least a little bit.
Signed,
LoveInOhio
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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me? (link)
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Nothing's wrong with you. I used to be like that for a while, and sometimes I still am. I guess it's just the fear of being rejected or hated. Even for small things like getting ketchup or sharpening your pencil. People can think lots of stuff is weird, but that's their loss. But anyway, next time you need to sharpen your pencil...go do it. You'll feel a lot better. Then work your way up to doing the bigger things, and eventually you'll be able to do stuff without feeling weird or insecure. Just take it gradually.
Good luck,
Mikaela.
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