I have this friend, who I know likes me.. but I have a boyfriend who I love.. but I dont want to hurt my friend.. My friend tells me he loves me all the time and he calls me baby.. my boyfriend doesnt say anything about it but I know it pisses him off. Now I ask you this, what do I do about my friend? I dont want to hurt him though because hes been there for me, but I just dont feel the same for him as he feels for me..
Signed,
FM
You love this boyfriend a lot, and your friend could very well jeopardize your relationship with him. But, on the other hand, losing a friendship would completely suck. But, I'd say talk to your friend about it. Make him understand you're good friends and that's it, because you love your boyfriend too much. Don't make your friend feel as if he never has a chance, but don't lead him on. Make sure he gets the point though, that he can't cross the line of friendship and sexual relations.
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