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Broken Heart - Long but please read
Hi, I'm a girl, freshman, and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend, who is 15, for about a month and three weeks. It was perfect at first and just went down. I don't know what happened. We went to the movies and had a great time, but it got worse and he stopped talking to me. I wondered what was wrong. My friends told me that he was a crack head and shouldn't go out with him, but I liked him so I didn't listen. We had tons of fun. I got tons of pictures with me and him together. I also have his sweater at home. But recently he has had a flirting problem and flirted with every girl in front of me. I got mad and sad and ended up getting my friends to talk to him for me. My friends said he was going to break up with me. I was so sad. Then they said he wanted to dump me because I'm too immature. My friend said he was cheating on me, but I wouldn't believe it. He also made me cry by joking around with me saying he would break up with me a few times and he told like a lot of people he made me cry at school.
Today my life ended and he dumped me. I ended up crying my heart out. After school I talked to him and asked why. He said I acted like a baby. I was sad. Then this girl came up and asked if he was coming to her house. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it. The next thing I knew they were walking around holding hands like lovers. I yelled FU at them, but I don't think they heard it. Then I was so pissed off. My bus came. I got on it. I was so mad and started yelling FU and flipping off everyone out of the bus window and started crying to death; thinking about that girl and the good times we had together. Then I saw him walking with the girl far away. I flipped them off, but they didn't see. After that I cried so much on the bus for about an hour and I seriously almost threw-up.
This is the worst day of my life. I can't stop thinking about him because I still love him so much. He was so nice and sweet. I don't think I will ever get over him. Can someone please just give advice how I can get over him because I don't think I ever will and just thinking about him makes me cry and feel like I'm about to get sick even more...
Thanks so much for the help....
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K, this is gonna be a serious one, I was with a guy for 10 1/2 months, that's way more than a month and 3 weeks. I understand how you feel tho. And it's gonna be hard getting over him, but just think about how bad he hurt you and all the things he did to upset you. he's not worth it. there are plenty of ugys out there way better than him, just try to not talk to him and just forget about him i know its hard, trust me when you spend almost a year with someone, its hard to not have EVERYTHING remind you of them, but yeah, it was only a 2 month thing, get over him, he doesnt deserve u anyway
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He's NOT worth it, no matter how much you think he is now. I promise, a few years down the road, nothing that happened to you in high school will matter.
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hunny he isnt worth it..the day he breaks up w/ you he goes and holds a girls hand..even worse..the day he brokee up w/ you..thts wut you call a jackass..yah it gunna tak forever to forget bout him cuz you prob did love him..but there are other guys..wen you think of him..just try and think of wut he did to you and how it hurt you...hes not worth it..at all..try movin on to another guy and dont bring yourself down by like sayin his name or thinkin bout him.theres so much more tyme for other guys trust me..hes just one of them tht are messed up..gettin over him will b hard..but you can do it..enjoy wut you do have..rather then wut you dont..trust me..youll get over him..tell yourself wut he did to you and how he made you feel..itll help you..hope i helped
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i thought that about my ex-boyfriend. i went out with him for about 11 months.. we broke up in february, and i just got over him in july. it just takes time.. you gotta go out and look for someone else! and if he was nice and sweet, he wouldn't of done that to you.. i thought that about mine.. but he cheated on me with my best friend.. and he was always stoned. just go back out there and find someone else! i hope it all works out for you! if u need to talk, im me. shad 0 w x5.. hope ive helped :o)
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Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry, what a pain in the ass situation...let me try and help anyway I can...
I think he dumped you only because of surrounding chatter, chatter that influenced him to do so. There seems too much conflicting energy around the two of you and you are not thinking of yourselves and the importance of your relationship together right now because of it. This relationship is definately fixable. What it's gonna take is a bit of remorse from your (ex) b'friend, companionship, and communication. Communication is key. Ask him, "dude, what's goin on, there seemed nothing significant wrong with what we had, what's the deal??" The thing is; is if he continues to be a dick and unapproachable, then you're gonna need to move on. If he is willing to work with you, then it is worth saving. This is exactly what you need to base all of this on. If he chooses to be a dick, then, trust me, the end of his path will be a dead end. If he's all cool about it, then you've got a keeper. You know what to do now; go at it and the best of luck!!
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Ok first off stop thinking about him. I know its hard but you need to try. Do you see him often? If so this could be difficult. MOVE ON.If he dumped you forget about him.Act liked you've moved on (even if you haven't) Try! I hope this helped! Good luck!
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He is not worth your tears. If he's a crackhead, then he would be trouble even if he didn't break up with you. He was going to cause you pain no matter what. If he did that to you, he's obviously going to do that to the next girl. You need someone who will actually be in a relationship, so just remember that. It's going to be hard getting over him, but remember that you're worth more than what he gave you. Don't let him affect you anymore. Pretend he doesn't exist. Next time you get in a relationship, listen to your friends opinions and take them into consideration. Most of the time they are right.
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omfg this literally made me cry!
im so sorry i know how u feel i just got over a broken heart and it weired cause this is almost the same story of me and xxxxxxxx....:0(
trust me u will get over him and find better...
i have!!!!
but there is still a part of me tht loves him...
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well it will be hard to get over him and it will take time. you cant really do anything to make yourelf get over him. just move on with your life and go about doing what you need to do. it sounds to me like you really dont need him in your life. you dont deserve someone who will treat you as he did. ppl dnt usually tell their significant other that they are going to break up with them just for the sick joy that they get of hurting you and making you cry. dont worry about him, things will get better and you will find someoneout there who is right for you. your young there will be other. trust me. they come and go.
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Omgsh!!! I'm so sorry...I know exactly how you feel!!! I felt the same way after my boyfriend broke up with me, and the truth is...you may not ever fully recover from this, but it gets better!!! You will start to focus on other things over time and it will not be as painfull, but it still sucks really bad. Try to get involved with after school activities...or just go out and party with your girls!!! That will help...eventually you will meet someone else, but for now just think about how he treated you, and realize that he acted like a real asshole. Just realize that the slut he is with now will probably leave him for another guy and he will come crawling back to you!!! If you want to you could try to be friends with him but he sounds like he's been an awfull person to you. You deserve better. But, it will all get better...as it turns out me and my ex. are really good friends, so maybe you will be too. Just remember to stand your ground and have some pride...don't go suck up to him!!! Well...GOOD LUCK, and I hope you feel better!!!
-Hope I Helped *Banna*
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wow.. i fee so bad for you. its tough to get over someone that you really liked. last year i went through the same thing. i cried every night, though and i wasnt happy anymore. it was hard at first and there is nothing oyu can really do. i just stood by my friends and flirted a lot. i finally realized that he wasnt good enough for me and it was time to move on. i really thought i was in love with this kid but now i realize that the person i love has always been close to me. you never know how to get better, i could tell you to eat your emotions but thats not always the best thing. flirt and have fun do stuff like hang out wtih people to get over him.. hope i helped
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Get over it and grow up. This guy was an asshole.
"He was so nice and sweet."
When, when he was making you cry? When he was cheating on you? When he was flirting constantly in front of you? When he called you names, told all his friends that you cried and made you feel like you were immature?
What the fuck is so sweet about this guy.
Get over it. Stop being incredubly immature by telling everyone to fuck off.
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