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Things have been going great with my boyfriend. But I can tell my best friend is jealous. I guess I dont blame her but still, I'd like to be able to talk to her about it without feeling guilty like I'm bragging. I've tried to talk to her about like our first kiss or stuff like that but she either gets all quiet or says bad things about him.. like he's a player or something like that (which he isnt, we both really like eachother but thats besides the point). I just really want to be able to share it with her and not feel bad about it. Should I still talk to her about it or just talk to my other friends? Thanx so much.. I rate high!
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sweety, shes jelouse up the ass! shes obviously not a very good friend cuz if she was she would be happy for you try talking to other girls the best ones u could talk to are the ones who also have a b/f.
wish u the best of luck,
lOvElY mS.RoTtEn
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u should hang out wit ur friend more bcuz that is obviously what shes jealous about so im sayin is spend half time wit ur friend and half time wit ur bf and rate pleaze.
also i hope i helped.
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wow.. thats a tough one. i would say talk to your friend about whuts wrong between you to. mayb if ur bf has a friend u can hook em up so she can b happy n b happier for u too? if that doesnt end up working talk to ur other friends about it n talk to her about other things. good luck with everything!
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Maybe your bud is jealous because a) She has feelings for your BF b) she wants a boyfriend of her own OR c) she feels like all you care about is your boyfriend, and never spend time with her anymore. Try not to bring it up too much in front of her, wait till she asks you about it. Be kind to her, maybe she's going through a rough time, thinking there's something wrong with her just because she doesn't have a boyfriend. Spend plenty of time with her, let her know that even tho you have a boyfriend, your number 1 pal is still her. Try to play matchmaker to get her hooked on another guy. When she feels comfortable enough to discuss your love life, then go for it! But remember, crushes come and go, but friends are forever! :)
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If you think she gets jealous just ask her and talk about it to your other friends and see whever they would like to listen! Maybe your friend would like to have a boyfriend but doesnt get the chance it does sound like your braggin... hope this is helpful
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Hey! That's so awesome that your having a great time with your boyfriend, that you probably wanna tell everyone about it! But at the same time, your bestfriend probably feels left out. She could be jealous for a number of reasons. Maybe she feels like he's taking you away from her and the time spent between you two isn't the same and when you do get a chance to spend time with her you talk about your boyfriend. Or if she doesn't have a boyfriend yet she may feel like it's depressing for her to be the one without a boyfriend. I think you should talk to her not about your boyfriend but about how she feels about him and you. If she doesn't like him, it doesn't mean that you can't either. You love him and it should stay that way. But be sure to cut down on talking about him to her. It's exactly like having her talk about someone you hate constantly. You wouldn't like it, so she probably doesn't either. Make sure you ask her about what's new with her and everything like that. Just let her know that you care about her and the things she does too. That will help out a lot! I know what you mean though, because I've had that happen to me. But I realized when you talk about your boyfriend all of the time to all of your friends they get so pissed off because it annoys them. You can talk about him, but limit it to the people who don't seem too interested. You can get a journal or something to write all about him in if you really want to say all of the sweet things he does. You just basically need to know when and when not to talk about him. Good luck sweetie!!
Love Always,
Mandee
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I think you should try to talk to her about it, that since she's your best friend that you need her to be open with you and tell you how she feels and listen to what you're saying. If it's not working, then maybe just not go to the subject of boyfriends with her until she has one of her own. If she still gets jealous after your talk, talk to your other friends about him and talk to her about other things. Oh yeah...and ask her to explain to you why she thinks he's a player if to you he's obviously not. I hoped I helped <33
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I would still talk to her but maybe not as often so she might be more into what your saying and let her know that you want to share this with her and you dont want to make her feel bad or brag.You just wanna share it with her because thats what friends do.So i would maybe try to talk with all your friends including her.Hope i helped.
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