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The suddenly seemingly turned-off boyfriend...
I used to really hate people who asked relationship questions online. I'd see them, shake my head and say "Gezz, deal with your own life, internet people have no way of knowing the personalities of those involved and therefore no way of a shot of answering you"
...BUT... here goes...
I'm a female in highschool. Ok, moving on, I have a boyfriend. He's awesome. I know I should just be myself.. and I usually am... but... you know, I'm trying not to screw this up. Surely you can relate. Anyway... I'm just starting to feel as if he is liking me less. ...Or something. I have to call him if I ever want to talk to him. (Not that I mind, but I'd like a call directed at me occaisionally).
He'll hold my hand, stroke it... whatever.. but seems reluctant to hug me? Sorry, that's probably unrelated... I was just curious.
We were supposed to go see a movie today with another couple, but I forgot to remind him last night and I have no way of contacting the female of the other party. I'm just not sure what to do.
I know, this is a crappy question... Sorry. And A little jumpy... ok, here's I'll sum it up.
*I feel like he likes me less. What do I do?
*He'll touch me physically, but doesn't want to hug goodbye. Why?
*Any way to save today's outing?
<3Deanna
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Aww. Well first off dont be reluctant for having a relationship online. Sometimes even when we dont know the personalities of those involved, we can still relate. Just teens kinda figure these things out. Maybe not every answer will be accurate but i hope i hit the target pretty well because I know how these things go and what its like. The question is totally not crappy, your upset, and you cant help it. Now that thats defined, to answer your questions. If you feel like "he likes you less" talk to him. Tell him everything you feel about him and make sure hes still serious. Just say " I really like you. I just wanna make sure your into me " .. its so simple and you could even say it online or something. About the hugging, do you ever try to hug him first? Maybe he'll get into that. Theres obviously nothing to big going on if he'll still touch you physically. Maybe hes just not a hugger. That you can live with, right? If you really cant make a joke out of it. Just laugh and say I need a hug! LOl.. come off all cute about it. And sry, im probably definetly late about the days events, because its the end of the day you posted this question, but i thought I could still help. Well, for the future, just call him in advance.
I really think this can work!
It needs a little bit more reinforcement.... try hanging out with him more. A real good idea would be to have him alone at your house. Good luck sweets
XoxO... i feel for ya.. if you need me, just box me.....
And by the way, dnt sweat it on the formatting-- nooo big deal at ALL.... lol xoxooxxo-- hope absolutely everything goes smoothly.
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You should ask him if things are okay between you too, I know it's gonna be weird cause it sounds kinda corny but just try and talk to him. What's up with the hugging thing? That seems weird that he won't hug you.. maybe you should try to just hug him first, maybe he just thinks it's weird. He is a guy, you never know what's going on his head. Here to help, hope you like!
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well idk what you should do about the hugging goodbye, but i do know that maybe you could try to call him and remind him about the movie that you were going to c to day before it is about an hour away from when the movie starts. if you can get a hold of him early enough maybe he wont have already mad plans for that time today. I dont really know if he is starting to like you less or not because i havent ever had to deal with that part between a guy liking me less but i started liking a guy less and broke up with him i just dont know what its like when a guy starts to like you less. I mean I dont know how they act and stuff.if you need anymore help about the movie i can try to help you some more if you im me at seksielilchink09@aol.com or if you email me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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