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Falling in love with your best guy friend
I am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend but I don't want to do anything to hurt our relationship. What do I do? I'm in a weird situatuion now. I haven't told him.
xo0x CoNfUsEd xo0x
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Just be yourself. Do you think he has feelings for you too? Watch him when you talk to him and see if he smiles a lot or touches you on the arm. These are signs that he's feeling the same way. If he seems more like buddy-buddy with you and always wants you to hang around the guys or help him out with girl problems, he might not be feeling the same way right now. If he acts like he doesn't even realize you're are a girl, I'd wait to act on your feelings. He's obviously not in the same place you are. However, if he is giving you all the signals, I'd jump while he was still willing to catch you. Some of the best relationships start out when people were friends first. You know each other well already and it's a solid base to build a relationship on. Hope this helped somewhat, :).
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ok sweetie, heres what I have to say. I promise you this question is the most i've ever had experience with and if you listen, you'll totally find good results, im not trying to put the pressure on or whatever. Here goes. Alot of girls come on here having feelings for guy friends and stuf like that, no matter how close you are to them if you really like them and you've waited like a week or two to make sure your feelings arent just random overflirt then you like him! You can't deprive yourself the guy you like when it has a total potential of working out! The only way these relationships get bent and twisted if you dont go out is if when and if you break up, you start fighting, so if that happens keep it cool and except the friendship back. Easy? Of course. Please dont deprive yourself a possibly really good potential boyfriend when you could be worrying over nothing!
gl i hope absolutely everything works out
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Well, I have been in the same situation so this should be easy for me to answer... First of all You NEED to tell him how you feel, and if he's a good enough friend he wouldn;t go psyco on the idea. Otherwise you might want to keep your feelings too yourself. But if it ends up that he likes you to, you have to make sure you are both up to the fact of your relationship as friends might not be the same afterwards. Well i hope I made sense and gave good advice!
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This is a really normal thing that happens to most people...Well, i think first off that you should just talk to him and tell him that you're starting to have feelings for him. If you feel he's ready, talk about maybe starting a relationship...but you DON'T want anything to change between you guys, no matter what. If you think he's not ready, then give him some time about it, back off a little because you don't want to prod him about it. I hope you guys work things out! <33
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I think you should tell him how you feel to make it so its not so awkward. If you really like him tell him how you feel i wont hurt ive told my really good frinds that i like them and we are still really good friends so go a head and tell him good luck!
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OMG I'M GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING! Well, what I did was sit him down and tell him exactly how I felt. U should do the same, and be like I like u more than a friend, and I just wanted 2 know if u felt the same way. U wait 4 him 2 answer and then, if he says he likes u 2, then go out w/him, but if he says no then say good b-c I just want 2 be friends. But if u do go out w/him, everything will be fine when u break up b-c the guy I was talking about, well I have went out w/him 5 times, but we r like the best of friends!! Hope I have helped u!
xoxo-becky-xoxo
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If you think you're going to keephavign these feelings for him i would let him know but tell him that know matter what he thinks of all of that yo donyt want your friendship to change because that means alot to you.Or m,aybe try having one of your/his friends talk to him about who he likes and see if your name comes up if your worried about letting him know.Hope i helped.
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I think you should tell him how you feel because if you don't say it anytime soon, you'll regret it. If you tell him, it's not gonna hurt your relationship with him because he's your best guy friend and I doubt he will say something that will hurt you. Stuff like this won't ruin a friendship, trust me. Hope I helped and good luck sweetie :)
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