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Please help
Alright my best friend and i used to fight a lot last year but we haven't fought in awhile. A few days ago, we went to a carnival and me and my other friend couldnt find her anywhere but finally we found the people she was with.I was all confused and asked them where she was and they started yelling at me for no reason telling me not to be mad! I wasn't mad at all and nothing was wrong but they were yelling at me for no reason and i tried to explain that to them but they just told me to shut up and kept yelling. I told my best friend what happened and she doesn't believe me! She says she doesnt trust me and shes positive that her other friends would never do that. I told her i would never ever lie to her, and i wouldn't, but she just said that i was making it up. I really really really dont wanna fight with her but we already are and if her other friends lie about what happened im afraid we'll never be friends again. I have a lot of other friends but she's my best friend and when shit like this happens it really really hurts. I have no idea what to do and please don't tell me to just wait till everything's forgotten, because i know thats not gonna work. Please help me..thank you so much and sorry it's so long.
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If she sez she dont trust u she aint ur frend
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Was any of your friends there that could tell your best friend the truth about them shouting at you? and if so get them to tell her.. and just have a long talk with her and say look i never did anyfink and i am not makin it up.....
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The two of you are best friends that isn't right that she wouldn't want to believe you over her new friends. Her listening to them instead of you should tell you something that she isn't really a good friend after all. But it is sad that something like this could ruin a friendship. If you are lucky she might tell you that she is sorry for not believing you in the first place but if that doesn't happen think about what I told you. I hope that I helped you but if not stop by my column and I will try to help you once again.
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I think that since you and this girl are "best friends" that she would have some trust in you and wouldn't just not believe you and just automatically believe the other ppl- I think that you should ditch her
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Talk to the people that were yelling at me and take a tape recorder and so that way if they admit it you can play the tape for her..
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(*)Charmed-Cherry21(*)
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If she isint gonna believe you then she wasint that great of a best friend. Just leave her alone and sooner or later she'll be like lets be friends again. Hope I helped.
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