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ahh would u hate me?


Question Posted Monday October 25 2004, 11:02 pm

well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way.

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PerkyPeacock answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 9:45 pm:
ok, ignoring the cell phone thing, why are you dating someone you don't trust?
i think if he'd threatened to do something to my phone, i may have done something too... but i think it'd have to be if he said he'd do something flatout bad to it... i mean, what if he was going to just write "i <3 you" on the banner or something... that's not so bad

maybe you're just paranoid about your phone...

but if you don't trust him, don't date him, that's not gonna end well

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beatlesrevil answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 9:42 pm:
Umm...yea. It sounds like he was just trying to flirt with you. I doubt he would've done anything to your phone. And if he had, you could've told on him then and then he'd have to pay for something he did. This was just a case of him trying to flirt with you. It was kind of lame to tell on him, but you know- you did what you thought was best. Maybe if he really, really likes you he won't hate you, but I doubt it. When he gets back to school just apologize over and over and maybe he'll forgive you. I dunno. Hope I helped. :/ -Manda

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babigurl46 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 7:26 pm:
I think u did the right thing but U shouldnt of if U liked him well enough but If U cant trust him then U did the right thing but I think you should apologized

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~*Annie*~ answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 5:35 pm:
You did the right thing, definately. Some people, including him and his cronies, will call you a tattletale, but would you rather be called a tattletale by a few number of people, or would you rather have a pushy-jerk-boy steal your purse and cell phone, and possibly ruin both? I wouldn't hate you if I knew you. He's an asshole, he deserved those three days of suspension. Right on :]

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HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 2:16 pm:
Ok first of hes not your boyfriend! boyfriends dont act like that! not at all! Get over him and find a sweeter guy. and yeah if he was just joking i'm sure hes going to hate you but you didnt know because you cant trust him. But if hes mad oh well. His loss he shouldnt be acting like an idiot!
-holly-

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ICE11BLUE answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 10:14 am:
Seriously, too bad for him, he's an ass! Yes, you did do the right thing. Screw him. Forget him. Let him go live his asshole life without you, you deserve better...that's my serious answer.

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dinoold answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:04 am:
well a couple things..yeah a guy NEVER takes a girl's purse..nope..no way.

A b/f is not one..unless he acts like one.

If he did not give me my purse back..yeah I would have been mad..but turning in is like saying he stole it.

did he..steal it??

And if you do not trust him..then he is not your b/f.

and..really sorry..but AM thinking he might not like you now..well unless his parents totally did not care that he was suspended. Then he might thank you.

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alisonmarie answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 7:53 am:
1. A guy is not a boyfriend simply because he tells you he is. A boyfriend is a mutual decision.

2. You should only date people who respect your property, body, mind, and emotions.

3. If a guy doesn't respect something as simple as a phone or purse, it's a sure bet he doesn't respect you, either.

4. Dump him.

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Farren answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 12:37 am:
Why the hell are you with this guy?
Apparently, you can't trust him, and he doesn't care about your well-being.
I don't think you should be too concerned with the cell phone thing, it was good to show him that you won't take it. Unless of course, you're greatly exaggerating because you don't want to sound like a immature tattle-tale, then he should be angry.
I don't really know you, so I can't say, but you know you, so take whichever advice applies.
-Farren

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xOx_Carolyn_xOx answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 12:10 am:
I think you did the right thing, cause I would have done the same I wouldnt hate you but you're "boyfriend" probably does.. and you should break up with him cause he sounds like a pretty big ass hole. and relationships are based on trust and if you can't trust him you are obviously not right for each other.

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