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Q: my b/f always hangs out with his frinds and not me when hes the one sayin lets do somethinn!..when i call him hes like well call me when u know what your doin then we neva get to see eachother that night or w/e.. when he knows i get mad hes always like im sorry i love you but then he does it again...i still reallyyy like him alot and i think if i dump him ill regret it but idno what to do

Talk to him about it .. ask him if you and his friends can all hang out together or sumthing.

Q: Okay , well i got a boyfriend that goes to a diffeent shcool then i am in . well this kidd zack me and him are really good friend . we went out last year for 1 month . .then we broke up for no reason . . i had many boyfriendz after him but he hasnt had a girlfriend since . . . . people say we flrit so much . but idk . . and everyone i mean everyone always ask me if i am going out with him and i say no and then thye goo u act like it . .
i maean i dont kno if he likes me but i like my boyfrind a lot how do i find out if he likes me or not ?? and what should i do if he does like me ??

You ask some of his friends if he likes you. And if he does like you.. well if you like him break up with your other b/f if you dont like him tell him you only like him as a friend and you dont want to ruin the friendship you have with him.

Q: I really need your help so please do not delete this.

Ok, I have been dancing for 8 years. I am known for dancing by friends, family, and neighbors. This year, I hate it! I dread it. I mean I whine to try and stay home. ONce I get there it isn't that bad, but I still hate it. Well, I costs my family ALOT of money so I can dance. They have to pay like 100 dollars a week practically. My mom thinks I should quit and she said I could, I mean I don't like dance so I am bascially wasting all our money. There are reasons why I wnat to stick with it, one of them being my friends there and I'm almost all the way down to my split, and you obviously know why I may quit. I am on the Field Hockey Team at school and love it. Please help me, should I quit? Would you quit? Thanks a million!

Sorry it was a bit long.

You should quit if you dont like it. I would quit I mean why waste your time doing something that you hate?
xox carolyn

Q: ok, my friend he duz marijuana. his dad got involved and had him stop but now he is shooting up on drugs!! he wont listen to ne1 because he is depressed and he just keeps taking the drugs because he thinks they are making him feel better. he alredy had one break down like this last year and i dont kno wut to do! plz help~

Okay you should try to get him to go into rehab.. thats the best thing because he can really get messed up on those and if he overdoses he can die.
xox Carolyn

Q: well im inlove w/ this boi named ( lets kall him jimmy ) well i was talkin to (lets kall him tim) well me nd tim were talkin nd he said he liked m,e so then i he asked like if i liked jimmy still nd i told him the truth i loved him w/ all my heart .. nd well he was all like well i think tim is using you for sex nd he told me why nd they didnt make any sense nd im confused bout whether or not to beleive him .. is jimmy using me HELP

Signed
CONFUSED ONE

Kinda the same thing happened to me... the kids names were Tom and Andrew i really liked Tom and i always asked Andrew about Tom and if he liked me and stuff and Andrew would say yes sometimes and then he started saying Tom didnt like me and he was using me for his own pleasure and Andrew would always tell me how Tom was getting with all these other girls.. so just ask "Jimmy" if he likes other girls.. u dibt think hes using you though!

Q: ok i am 13 and i am a female.i have this friend thats a guy and i like him...the problem is his cousin is my best friend. Well he has lived with me before (because he met me thro my bestfriend and needed a place to live) first reason i am confused or whatever is becuz my best friend would make fun of me most likely if i say i like him. also if i go out with him (he probably doesnt like me but yeah..) he or my best friend would tell their family and since their family is super close to mine then my sister and parents would find out and i dont really want them to know they would make fun of me. in art i am in his class and last week we would stare at each other for a minute then quickly look away a couple of time hehe and out of no where sometimes he tells people that he lived with me. sorry that was so long and confusing but try to give me the best advice u have

Well if you like him tell him because I went out with my best friends cousin when i was 13 and there whole family new and didnt make fun of me. And nothing happened between me and my best friend I mean if she was your best friend then she shouldnt make fun of you ..! And if he doesnt like you then ask him if you can be good friends and maybe get closer.
xox Carolyn xox

Q: well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way.

I think you did the right thing, cause I would have done the same I wouldnt hate you but you're "boyfriend" probably does.. and you should break up with him cause he sounds like a pretty big ass hole. and relationships are based on trust and if you can't trust him you are obviously not right for each other.

Q: I've been doing HTML on and off for about 7 or 8 years now, but I haven't done much of anything HTML related lately. I'm afraid my skills have lapsed over that time. So I want to start up another website from scratch so that I can see if I still got it in me. The question is, over what? I was thinking of a site for my workplace but my boss' girlfriend already has that covered. A site over something I'm interested in may be a little fun, but I'd like to make a useful site people will actually go to. I won't bother making a list of interests because no one will read a site about any of them.

I just need some practice. What can I do? Hell, if you want me to design a site for you I might just do that instead. Nothing too hard, though. And if you ask for too much I'll charge you. ;)

Hay can you design a site for me.. cause I have only been doing like really easy HTML so you can make me a site?
xox Carolyn xox

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Hey I am Carolyn im 15, i am a sophomore at McAuley. I am Cheerleader for St.Rita. I am from a south suburb of Chicago called Oak Lawn. But I call it the OL cause i like it better that way. I love music and would die with out it. Abercrombie is my favorite store. I am Irish and German. Yeah just ask me whatever you want! k!