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Question Posted Monday October 25 2004, 9:39 pm

ok, my friend he duz marijuana. his dad got involved and had him stop but now he is shooting up on drugs!! he wont listen to ne1 because he is depressed and he just keeps taking the drugs because he thinks they are making him feel better. he alredy had one break down like this last year and i dont kno wut to do! plz help~

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Adrz answered Friday November 19 2004, 12:49 pm:
talk to him, tell him how much you care and how much he means to you...If hes depressed, drugs arent the answer, but they do work, they make you forget about everything going wrong in your life, and maybe he just needs someone to talk to, be there for him =)
Hope i helped

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xohiddenkissox answered Saturday November 13 2004, 10:01 pm:
ok truthfully, amybe the drugs are making him better, and if hes depressed and you really are his friend,leave him be you should be happy for him if hes happy no matter what it is thtas making him happy!

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DrAgOnChEeRlDr00 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 11:58 am:
ok well what u do is to just talk to his parents and find a way to help out ur friend.! and tell him what drugs do to them and crap like that! i kno how u feel.. well heres my stort.. well my aunt got divorced when i was like 3 or 4 well then she got married shortly after.. well this guy was an alcoholic and he didnt kno what he was doing with his life and he did drugs too... so dont worry! ive been threw it and now my aunt doesnt drink because if she does it urges her to do drugs! well so only smokes now.. even tho thats still RELLY bad its better than the stuff b4! if u need ne more help im me! love u lots and hope it gets better! LiL RiSSA

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lOsT_sOulx3 answered Monday November 1 2004, 8:19 pm:
ok i did drugs b4 the only thing you can do is tell someone that could help cause i didnt listen too anyone untill i got put away and im 14 i was put away for 2 years i was 12 and i started doing drugs and have sex and no one could stop me untill my best friends got me help and my family wasnt there so that mite be the prob 4 this kid so just tell someone and get them help!<33

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dinoold answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:14 am:
You friend needs to see a doctor and get on an anti-depressant..if he is feeling so badly it is not his fault . He has a chemical inblalance that he is trying to SELF medicate himself.

His paresnt really need to get him to see someone.

All you can do is try to get him to see what he is doing..and be his friend..he is going to need you.

You are a good friend..for YOu care.

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KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 7:26 am:
well you should talk to him about why he takes these drugs...ask him why he does it and if theres anyway he can fix his problem...hope i helped :)

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charmed-cherry21 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 7:07 am:
Tell him that you really care about him and you don't want him to do it, and get sick.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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xOx_Carolyn_xOx answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 12:37 am:
Okay you should try to get him to go into rehab.. thats the best thing because he can really get messed up on those and if he overdoses he can die.
xox Carolyn

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tiffles8 answered Monday October 25 2004, 11:22 pm:
alright. maybe this wont seem rite but believe me it helps! call a hotline or something. take him to somebody who can help him.

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ICE11BLUE answered Monday October 25 2004, 9:59 pm:
You are definately not responsible for this person and his actions. But you can be a friend. Try reminding him of the things he liked before he replaced those things with drugs. Decide if you want to risk your friendship with him (usually only during recovery) to send him some real kind of serious help by telling, or weather you want to just be there for him; let him know that no matter what you're his friend. Seeing as how he's already had one break down, there is less of a chance this is just a phase that would quickly pass. Maybe you could tell someone that you could trust without letting your friend know that it was you who hinted for help for him. Or maybe he is someone you can talk to yourself to encourage he get help. You have choices. Choose them wisely and the best of luck to you and your friend.

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beatlesrevil answered Monday October 25 2004, 9:52 pm:
Urgh. People like this are dumb. I have a sister who kind of did this. Alls you need to do is get him help. Whether he approves or not. Shoot him up and tie him down and take him to De-tox. It's what's best for his system because each time you try to take the drug completely out of your system and then put it back in later it makes it harder to get off the next time. Yea. It makes sense, I swear. So...get him into an in-patient rehab where he can't check himself out and he'll be okay. It might be hard for all those involved at first, but in the end, it's the right thing to do. And you'll need his dad to help, because he's his guardian, I'm guessing and they have to check him in to rehab and all that shizz. Hope I helped, sorry if I'm just a random loser rambling. :) -Manda

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