Member Since: October 25, 2004
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Last Update: October 25, 2004
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me? (link)
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aww. in order for love u gotta show u love yourself. just show confidenc dont be the loner that does nothing ya know?
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alright...there are 4 guys you need to know about in this story: Nathan, TJ, Michael, and David.
1.Nathan is my boyfriend of about 2 months. i liked him for almost a year before we started going out.
2.TJ is one of my best friends. I love him so much, and he really likes me (that way). He left our school on thursday though. Now he's homeschooled. i cried for 2 days. (he's coming back next semester, i just found out!!)
3.Michael is a friend that i liked, and he used to like me. Now he has a girlfriend, but we've both said that if we both have problems with our relationships, we'd probably go out.
4.David is also one of my best friends. He also likes me, and we're always hugging. so many people think we go out and it's annoying.
ok...now here's the thing: i might like the last 3. i don't know what to do...i've been thinking about breaking up with nathan, but i might change my mind after i do! I can't really go out with TJ, even though i think i really want to...because i'm friends with his ex (they went out for 6 months), and she still likes him, knows he likes me, and hates it. I can't go out with David, because my best (girl) friend really likes him. And michael's taken...for now.
so now that i have thoroughly confused you, take a moment to make some sense of all this, and then tell me what you think!
please! i'm so confused! (link)
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hey. happened to me before. take it easy, maybe there r some things nathan does that turn u offf. does tj or michael or david do that? just if u KNOW u dont like nathan dump him bcuz the longer u hold it the more hurt they will be.
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ok, my friend he duz marijuana. his dad got involved and had him stop but now he is shooting up on drugs!! he wont listen to ne1 because he is depressed and he just keeps taking the drugs because he thinks they are making him feel better. he alredy had one break down like this last year and i dont kno wut to do! plz help~ (link)
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alright. maybe this wont seem rite but believe me it helps! call a hotline or something. take him to somebody who can help him.
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Hello. My best friend has been with this guy for a year and a half. They got their own apartment together in the beginning of September. I am not crazy about her being with him because he is lazy and overweight, and anti-social. My problem is that I am afraid my friend is going to turn this way too now. She used to be so much fun. They always have their shades drawn and they never want anyone over they say they are sleeping. I am afraid I am going to lose my best friend to a boring life of nothingness. I know it's getting to be winter/hybernation time, and they just moved in together not too long ago, but I also know what type of person this boy is and he is just going to influence her to shut out the world like he always has. I think she thought he was a different person when they first went out and she may be too attached to ever get out of it now. She gets obsessively attached to things and I'm afraid she is going to miss out on life for a while and I'm going to miss her, because "my friend is sleeping." Thank you to whomever answers. (link)
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I think maybe..NOT to get her to dislike him bcuz of how drawn they are to eachother but just talk to her about it and maybe..do something like yall did before she met him
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