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extremely confused!
alright...there are 4 guys you need to know about in this story: Nathan, TJ, Michael, and David.
1.Nathan is my boyfriend of about 2 months. i liked him for almost a year before we started going out.
2.TJ is one of my best friends. I love him so much, and he really likes me (that way). He left our school on thursday though. Now he's homeschooled. i cried for 2 days. (he's coming back next semester, i just found out!!)
3.Michael is a friend that i liked, and he used to like me. Now he has a girlfriend, but we've both said that if we both have problems with our relationships, we'd probably go out.
4.David is also one of my best friends. He also likes me, and we're always hugging. so many people think we go out and it's annoying.
ok...now here's the thing: i might like the last 3. i don't know what to do...i've been thinking about breaking up with nathan, but i might change my mind after i do! I can't really go out with TJ, even though i think i really want to...because i'm friends with his ex (they went out for 6 months), and she still likes him, knows he likes me, and hates it. I can't go out with David, because my best (girl) friend really likes him. And michael's taken...for now.
so now that i have thoroughly confused you, take a moment to make some sense of all this, and then tell me what you think!
please! i'm so confused!
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hey. happened to me before. take it easy, maybe there r some things nathan does that turn u offf. does tj or michael or david do that? just if u KNOW u dont like nathan dump him bcuz the longer u hold it the more hurt they will be.
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You need to figure out if you really like Nathan. Cuz if you dont then u mite need to break up with him. But i wouldnt dump him if you really do like him. Cuz things mite not work out with the other 3. Just wait and see what happens.
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Ok so the first thing you need to ask yourself is do you still like Nathan? Chances are you do even if you don't know it since you've liked him for over a year. I know I've liked a guy for a while and I didn't feel it for a while anymore, but then I went back to liking him. The second thing you need to ask yourself is who would make you the happiest? Two of my best friends are going out right now and I know my guy friend drives my girl friend crazy because he never finds time to talk to her or see her. It even drives me crazy as a friend when he does this to me. I don't think she's really happy with him, but she's probably just afraid to end things with him because she still likes him. Do you really want to be stuck in a relationship where you're unhappy? The third thing you need to ask yourself is will this ruin any friendships? I used to be so much closer to my last boyfriend before we went out, and we're still friends, but it's still a little weird for me. My advice is that you and Nathan take a break for a while. Tell him you have a lot on your mind and you need to think things through. He'll understand if he cares about you. Take that time to figure out all your emotions and don't make any decisions unless you're absolutely sure. So many people I know have been miserable from making the wrong decision. Another thing is, do you really care about any of these guys if it's such a hard choice to make? I hope I helped! Good luck hunny!!!
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I think you should just stay single for about a week to clear your mind and find out who you really like and then decide us columnist can not make our decision for you. we just help you out so i hope you get a good pick and if you get a good boyfriend good luck
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4 guys at once?? lol wow
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i think (for da time being) stay wit nathan. i no dat ur probably thinkin "wut! but there r three other options!", but, according 2 u, those wud just b dead ends. stay wit nathan until thins change. if u liked him 4 a whole year b4 goin out wit him, it won't be horrible to hang on for a lil longer. ur friend will stop liking david, or michael will break up wit his gf. maybe TJ's ex will go out wit sum1 else and stop liking him. but there's nothing u can do but wait, unfortunately. until sumthin changes den just sit bak and hang out wit ur friends and do stuff wit nathan. good luck! :)
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ok i pretty much am gunna say that u should stay with nathan.. ya dont wanna mess wit guyz that ur friends like cuz theyll get mad at ya AND ya dont mess with a taken guy.. if Michael breaks up wit his gf see how he feels about you and if he has real feelings for you then u can make the decision there.. hope i helped xoxo JeSS'
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I think that I would definatly have to say that you need to make up your mind. I know its not easy when they all seem so great, but make a list of pros and cons if you have to. Also, I am a fan of the "If its Not Broke, Don't Fix it Policy." If you still like Nathan then you should stick with him and see where that takes you.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
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