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hey evry1!! my namez JeSSica n im from pa. I like 2 skateboard, go bowlin, go 2 the mall, hang with friendz, n party.. I gotta kitten named FeeBee which we found in the woods abandoned AND i got a dog named Jasmine who likes to eat the kittys food and tear the garbage up lol.. ne wayz, my fave movies are Grind and The Butterfly Effect. my fave video gamez are Grand Theft Auto Vice City and THPS4.
Welp thas all i kno bout me, if u wanna chat IM me on AIM k? ttyl cya!

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alright...there are 4 guys you need to know about in this story: Nathan, TJ, Michael, and David.

1.Nathan is my boyfriend of about 2 months. i liked him for almost a year before we started going out.

2.TJ is one of my best friends. I love him so much, and he really likes me (that way). He left our school on thursday though. Now he's homeschooled. i cried for 2 days. (he's coming back next semester, i just found out!!)

3.Michael is a friend that i liked, and he used to like me. Now he has a girlfriend, but we've both said that if we both have problems with our relationships, we'd probably go out.

4.David is also one of my best friends. He also likes me, and we're always hugging. so many people think we go out and it's annoying.

ok...now here's the thing: i might like the last 3. i don't know what to do...i've been thinking about breaking up with nathan, but i might change my mind after i do! I can't really go out with TJ, even though i think i really want to...because i'm friends with his ex (they went out for 6 months), and she still likes him, knows he likes me, and hates it. I can't go out with David, because my best (girl) friend really likes him. And michael's taken...for now.

so now that i have thoroughly confused you, take a moment to make some sense of all this, and then tell me what you think!

please! i'm so confused!

ok i pretty much am gunna say that u should stay with nathan.. ya dont wanna mess wit guyz that ur friends like cuz theyll get mad at ya AND ya dont mess with a taken guy.. if Michael breaks up wit his gf see how he feels about you and if he has real feelings for you then u can make the decision there.. hope i helped xoxo JeSS'

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Hi its Krissy again... Im affraid of going to school when im on my period cause im affraid ill stink or something how can I prevent that?


Thanks a lot, KRISSY

uhh yea.. you gotta go 2 skool whether or not u got ur period. theres scented pads that make the smell go away and if u use tampons i dono what to tell ya, but if u realli care bout how u smell then u should use pads when ur in skool that are scented. k hope i helped

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Okay You gave some advice to a person who had been molested and you said that happened to you and you were in the woods. Can you tell me that story please.


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yea.. i was in the woods with my friends and we were just walking around and the one guy that was friends with my friends was drunk. Afta a while he called me ova and told me he had to ask me something. when he got me away from my friends he asked me to give him a bj. i said no and he grabbed me where he knew i had a huge black n blu n was like, give me a bj or ill give ya a black n blu 3 times worse then that and he pulled out a knife so my friends couldnt come over to help me. Afta a week or so i told my friend Jackie and she told me i should tell my mom so i did and he got in a lot of trouble wit the cops. if u wanna chat send me sumthin ne time thnks xo' Jess

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can anyone give me information on ocd.i have a little boy age 10,he has just been diognosed with ocd and dyslexia.i feel my little boy is getting worse,he now wont sleep,eat,move away from me and is scared.i dont know what to do from here.his next appointment with psychitrist and doctor is not until next friday.pleeeze anyone.thanks.a very worried mum.moe

well, my dad has ocd so i sorda kno what its all about. different people hav diff symtoms of it but if ur kid has sum serious probs wit it get him prozac from ur doctor. it helps calm ya down and its realli helpful for ocd. it works on my dad when he takes it. Hope your lil boy gets well soon. xoxoxoxoxoxo Jessica

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my best friend's boyfriend recently broke up with her and she still has feelings for him. but she also KIND OF likes this other guy, well she mostly only likes him as a friend. everyone wants them to make out tonight at the football game but she doesnt know if she wants to cause she doesnt really have strong feelings for him. but she already told everyone that she WILL make out with him tonight and now she doesnt know what to do. and she still likes her old boyfriend. and she likes other guys too. i keep telling her not to make out with this kid, but she doesnt know. any advice you could give her? since she told everyone that shes gonna make out with him, she doesnt know how to get out of it! so (im gonna read your answers to her on the phone because her computer is broken) thanks!

ok. uMmM i think that if ur friend truly dont hav much feeling for this guy she shouldnt do ne thing wit him. Thats only gunna make her seem like a slut. "makin out" is sposed to b shared by two people who truely love eachother and u have to be honest with this guy if u dont realli like him. If ne 1 has ne thing to say about it just say, "im sorri im not a slut and i dont like him, so i dont makeout wit guys i dont like." or sumthin like that. But lay it to him easy cuz lata on if u start to realli like him he mite not like you becuz of u turnin him down to hard. k? hope it works cya! JeSSie

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im a 14f and ok there is this guy that i met over the summer, he was friends with my guy friends and i met him and i thought he was cute, i dont go for guys because of looks, i go by personalit, and lets say his name is joe.. well joe tells people he thinks im hot and then we talk a little bit and flirt and then like 2 days later my friend Marie calls me and is like hey joe wanted to know if he can call u ... and she mentioned he might ask me out, but i wasnt sure if i was ready to go out with him and i was like ill talk to him tomorrow at the park because everyone hangs out at the park so i decided yeah ill answer him tomorrow. the thing is that he only was gonna stay for like a month so pretty soon he'll be leaving so yeah next day he totally ignores me at the park and later on this girl Jessica is having a party which i didnt get invited to and i hear that everyone gets drunk and jessica gives joe a blow job ... then i talk to joe and hes like idk we were drunk and stuff and then me and him were back on the track until then another girl pops up and he ditches me again, then he tells all his friends, which are my friends too that he was talkin to me on the phone and he said how we were gonna hook up and he makes a bunch of bs up too them, so yeah then he leaves back to Michigan (where he is from) without even saying anything. i talk to some of my guy friends about him and they tell me how much of a player he is and stuff how he brags he likes to be a pimp and all this bullshit but yeah then i talk to him over the internet a lot and hes like so sweet and tells me all these nice things how he misses me and wishes we would of hooked up and how he shouldnt of been with jessica and stuff and he tells me hes gonna be coming in a month but he doesnt come and then next time im online he is like im coming in 10 days so then i get REALLLLY happy but he ends up not coming and now my friend was talking to one of her friends Mark, and finds out that MARk & joe are cousins. and mark is like i heard u hooked up wit my cousin, he says that to my cousin, and shes like ur cousin? hes like yeah joe, he told me u and some other girl and him went partying a lot ... and she finds out more stuff that he is going to come and visit soon and now i dont know what to do.. i've fallin for him and i dont wanna hear forget about him, i need actual advice, i mean i think about him 24/7 and its just getting me mad ... what do i do? thanks a lot i'll rate u 5's! sorry that its long!

ok. i kno wut ur talkin bout cuz i was goin out wit sum1 JUST like him. hed tell me he loved me n all but then when we were with his friends hed act like we were just friends. the guy ur talkin bout seems like a playa and even tho you fell for him u need to get bak up and move on to someone who will b honest and truthful to you and respect your rites as a chik. I know this probly aint the greatest advice, and it seems realli hard to forget about him cuz i felt the same way, but ya just gotta concentrate on sum1 else. ok? hope it helps. cya xo' JeSS

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