my best friend's boyfriend recently broke up with her and she still has feelings for him. but she also KIND OF likes this other guy, well she mostly only likes him as a friend. everyone wants them to make out tonight at the football game but she doesnt know if she wants to cause she doesnt really have strong feelings for him. but she already told everyone that she WILL make out with him tonight and now she doesnt know what to do. and she still likes her old boyfriend. and she likes other guys too. i keep telling her not to make out with this kid, but she doesnt know. any advice you could give her? since she told everyone that shes gonna make out with him, she doesnt know how to get out of it! so (im gonna read your answers to her on the phone because her computer is broken) thanks!
OnlyQTaround4u answered Friday October 22 2004, 7:08 pm: ok. uMmM i think that if ur friend truly dont hav much feeling for this guy she shouldnt do ne thing wit him. Thats only gunna make her seem like a slut. "makin out" is sposed to b shared by two people who truely love eachother and u have to be honest with this guy if u dont realli like him. If ne 1 has ne thing to say about it just say, "im sorri im not a slut and i dont like him, so i dont makeout wit guys i dont like." or sumthin like that. But lay it to him easy cuz lata on if u start to realli like him he mite not like you becuz of u turnin him down to hard. k? hope it works cya! JeSSie [ OnlyQTaround4u's advice column | Ask OnlyQTaround4u A Question ]
XxRockon answered Friday October 22 2004, 6:38 pm: hmm, if she still likes her old bf then thats okay even if she sorta likes this other kid. Since she told everyone she is gunna make out wit him, she cud if she wanted its more of a personal desicion for bc its based on her feelings for him and if she really wants to, she made decide that she wants to. If she decides at hte last minute she doesn't wana she can just say to this guy "im sorry i dont have feelings for u as u do for me rite now and im sorry, but ur great guy"..hope this helps [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
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