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im a 14f and ok there is this guy that i met over the summer, he was friends with my guy friends and i met him and i thought he was cute, i dont go for guys because of looks, i go by personalit, and lets say his name is joe.. well joe tells people he thinks im hot and then we talk a little bit and flirt and then like 2 days later my friend Marie calls me and is like hey joe wanted to know if he can call u ... and she mentioned he might ask me out, but i wasnt sure if i was ready to go out with him and i was like ill talk to him tomorrow at the park because everyone hangs out at the park so i decided yeah ill answer him tomorrow. the thing is that he only was gonna stay for like a month so pretty soon he'll be leaving so yeah next day he totally ignores me at the park and later on this girl Jessica is having a party which i didnt get invited to and i hear that everyone gets drunk and jessica gives joe a blow job ... then i talk to joe and hes like idk we were drunk and stuff and then me and him were back on the track until then another girl pops up and he ditches me again, then he tells all his friends, which are my friends too that he was talkin to me on the phone and he said how we were gonna hook up and he makes a bunch of bs up too them, so yeah then he leaves back to Michigan (where he is from) without even saying anything. i talk to some of my guy friends about him and they tell me how much of a player he is and stuff how he brags he likes to be a pimp and all this bullshit but yeah then i talk to him over the internet a lot and hes like so sweet and tells me all these nice things how he misses me and wishes we would of hooked up and how he shouldnt of been with jessica and stuff and he tells me hes gonna be coming in a month but he doesnt come and then next time im online he is like im coming in 10 days so then i get REALLLLY happy but he ends up not coming and now my friend was talking to one of her friends Mark, and finds out that MARk & joe are cousins. and mark is like i heard u hooked up wit my cousin, he says that to my cousin, and shes like ur cousin? hes like yeah joe, he told me u and some other girl and him went partying a lot ... and she finds out more stuff that he is going to come and visit soon and now i dont know what to do.. i've fallin for him and i dont wanna hear forget about him, i need actual advice, i mean i think about him 24/7 and its just getting me mad ... what do i do? thanks a lot i'll rate u 5's! sorry that its long!
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ok. i kno wut ur talkin bout cuz i was goin out wit sum1 JUST like him. hed tell me he loved me n all but then when we were with his friends hed act like we were just friends. the guy ur talkin bout seems like a playa and even tho you fell for him u need to get bak up and move on to someone who will b honest and truthful to you and respect your rites as a chik. I know this probly aint the greatest advice, and it seems realli hard to forget about him cuz i felt the same way, but ya just gotta concentrate on sum1 else. ok? hope it helps. cya xo' JeSS
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Sweetie I've been in the same situation. I was with this guy for sooooo long and I liked him a lot but he cheated on my several times and always lied about it. I even caught him and he denied it. He told me he "loved me" and he really did "care" but I always knew it was bull. Somehow I knew it wouldn't work out so I convinced myself I didn't like him but then he would smile at me and all the logic in convincing myself I was through with him just evaportated. After that I found myself in a tough situation and I really needed someone to talk to. Needless to say he was far to busy with my problems and he would never answer my calls! He was only there through the good stuff, never when I really needed him to be there. I finally moved away because situations got so bad and for a while he would call and tell me how much he wanted to see me and how much he missed me! He even told me he was going to visit and just like you....he didn't show! Big shocker huh? I eventually decided to give up on him. I called him and told him exactly how I felt about him.....and he knew I was right. He was actually speechless. I know its hard but believe it or not it makes you a better person. You are always stronger than you think you are and you can always keep going long after you say you can't. Its gonna hurt for a while and your gonna think your never get over it but you will. Your gonna be better off without him and your gonna be a stronger person because of it. Trust me and if you have any more questions drop me some in my inbox. Good luck and lemme know how things go! =)
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